Erica Rappard
My name is Erica and I am a 17 year old currently diagnosed with gluten intolerance. (as of late fall 2007) I have yet to take the endoscopy for further identification on whether I have celiac or not. I improved greatly on a gluten-free diet and it has given me much more vitality to life. Running is my passion. I am a varsity athlete on my school's track team.
A Social Challenge to be Gluten-Free
- By Erica Rappard
- Published 07/15/2008
Ever since I have discovered that I am gluten intolerant it has limited my options in social get-togethers. Social outings tend to be centered around eating out. Being a 17 year old and only a year away from college only exacerbates the issue. How does one deal with being celiac or gluten intolerant when going out to eat with friends? Most of the time my friends are fairly understanding about where we eat out, but I know that it is a bit of a burden on them. I can’t eat at places like Olive Garden, Sonic, Subway, Quiznos, Pizza Hut, Panera Bread, etc. (These places either have way too much cross contamination or the menu has literally nothing gluten free) Therefore I have a limited number of restaurants I can chose from. This is difficult socially because I can't just go anywhere they would like to go. Its hard to hear about, let alone see a group of friends eating or going somewhere I can't. Money also becomes an issue. At my age there is a limited amount my friends and I can afford to spend to eat out. Unfortunately in this case you tend to get what you pay for. The majority of restaurants in my area that provide gluten free items on their menu tend to carry a higher price tag. My solution is eating at places like Chipotle (the burrito bowl; no tortilla), Mimi’s, Wendy’s, McDonalds, (usually just the fries), Smoothie King, Waldo’s pizza (they have a gluten free crust as well as regular pizza), a coffee shop (my favorite is It’s a Grind) and Fortune Wok. This way I still go out with my friends and catch up, but I avoid foods with gluten and decrease the amount I spend. Then once a month or so my family and/or friends and I will splurge on eating at a fancier restaurant with a gluten free menu. If it comes down to it I'll eat a salad somewhere when I must, even if its not what I really would like to eat when I'm with my friends. It truly is a sacrifice at times, but I balance it equally with making those foods I really want (pasta, bread sticks, etc.) gluten free at home. In the end I think the easiest solution is just entertaining at home. At least you have full control as to what goes into the food (no cross contamination) and you still maintain the social aspect. My mother has been teaching me how to cook, and I do have to say I quite enjoy it. I have learned to make a variety of gluten free dishes and even bake my own pizza crusts and loaves of bread. If I know that I am going over to a friends place for several hours or to spend the night I try to eat before or I bring a gluten free snack and/or frozen dinner with me and eat vegetables and fruits while I'm there. Amy’s has some truly great frozen dinners. My favorite has to be the brown rice and vegetables one with tofu. It is delicious and almost has a stuffing like taste to it. As for snack bars I really enjoy the Larabars, especially the chocolate coffee one (I have yet to try all the different flavors however) and Mrs. Mays Naturals. The Larabars have a much chewier and softer texture than the Mrs. Mays (they are almost solid nuts). You can find the Larabars at most HyVee’s. I am hopeful that the company that makes the Cliff Bar will soon make their energy bar gluten free. At the moment it is NOT gluten free because of the malt extract in it. I plan to contact the company to see if they can make a change in this. Cliff Bars are available at Wal-Mart, but Larabars are not. Another item I like to bring with me are Vans Gluten Free Waffles. They are easy to heat up, but I would advise heating them in the microwave so you don’t have to use a gluten contaminated toaster. (I have my own separate one at home). So all in all that is a brief explanation about how I handle eating gluten free with friends and family who are not gluten intolerant or celiac. There are a lot of loop holes and issues I haven’t gone into, but if you have any questions please feel free to ask. You are not alone in this. I do understand the frustrations that go along with eating gluten free, especially being 17. In my words "it sucks" and it's challenging, but not impossible. Much love to everyone.
Erica
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Comments
#1 ( Yolanda Bermudez)
Erica I was so interested in all you had to say and like you I have not been tested for Celiac disease but I have found out I am gluten intolerance. I am a lot older than you I wish I would have known about this disease a long time ago. I have been through so much discomfort and finally the chronic fatigue is what was killing me. I had found out I was allergic to beer and then I investigated some more and found out food was making me so sick. Thank you for your testimony and I do hope I can adjust as well as you for I don't really know if I have done any damage to my intestine. Yes like you said "It Sucks" I am 63 years old and have spent a miserable life with this diasease.
Yolanda
#2 ( Erika)
Hi Erica, I know exactly what you are going through. I am a 15 year old with a gluten intolerance except it's even harder for me dining out because I live in a small town and there are no restaurants with gluten free menus within my proximity. Whenever I go to my friends house I have to bring my own supper and breakfast. Good luck with your coping with the intolerance.
#3 ( GeoKozmos)
Hi, I am 55 and I also had an uncomfortable life due to this sickness. But now I am relieved, it seems worth while to fight for this...at my regular places I try to teach people about gluten-free rice cakes, so that when they invite me among others, they should buy it for me instead of bread. Or I take it with me.
#4 ( Kristy)
Hi Erica,
Thanks for sharing this. I have a mother (60 years old) and a son (2 years old) who are gluten intolerant. Eating out is always a chore.
Just FYI, McDonald's French fries have wheat in them. I just checked their website. Not sure if you have In N' Out by you, but theirs are just potatoes (gluten-free).
Kristy
#5 ( Henrietta)
Hi Erica, 79 and feeling fine, after more that a year gluten-free. All of the miseries went away. General Mills "Rice Cheks" are now gluten-free. They may not be in your HyVee yet. Doing a lot of salads when I go out. Have you tried Nutella on your chocolate rice cakes? It is found near the peanut butter. I make quite an assortment of open-face rice cake sandwiches by using a toaster oven. I'm sure I may be getting cross-contamination when I breakfast at Village Inn, Perkins, IHOP, and Country Kitchen, but I can usually get them to make substitutions for me. I know you celiac teens really have a difficult time. I wish you well, and good health.
#6 ( Kaitlyn )
Hi Erica! I'm a celiac and I was diagnosed three years ago at 17. I am about to start my junior year in college and I live in the dorms. I find this to be the most difficult part about college because I am forced to eat the cafeteria food. The company catering at my university is truly terrible. Not only is the majority of the food unhealthy for anyone, but there are very few options for celiacs. Many times I end up eating a chicken breast and veggies. This sounds good at first but after the second week straight of chicken breasts it starts to be a little hard to handle and after a month you wonder how you can possibly eat another crappy chicken breast. When I am at school I believe that my health suffers because I sometimes consume hidden gluten without knowing it. Several times they took away my food just as I was about to eat it and informed me that it contained gluten. And other times I knew I had consumed gluten because I experienced all the symptoms typical of my gluten consumption. I have tried to speak with the head chef numerous times as well as the woman in charge of the food program there, but nothing has really helped. It's important to note that I attend a small private school and so state universities may actually be a better option. I agree...it truly is a social challenge to be gluten free and I've had many of the same experiences when trying to find restaurants that work for me and are also appealing to my friends. It does get easier with time though and I find that there are more options now than ever before. However, fast food is an especially tricky topic. I used to eat the fries at Mcdonald's and recently found out (june 2008) that they have wheat in the form of beef flavoring...now tell me..why do fries need to be beef flavored?! Is it too much to ask for fries that are just...fries. I eat at Noodles occasionally and they offer rice noodles with several of the dishes. Just be sure the rest of the ingredients are gluten free. P.F. Chang's has a small gluten free menu, Outback has a variety of gluten free options including the chocolate thunder from down under. It's a gluten free brownie and it is absolutely AMAZING! Worth the money for sure. Texas Roadhouse has several options. In Colorado, Beau Jo's Pizza offers gluten free pizza. :) The only Italian I've experienced gf was Maggiano's and it's a little pricey. They made a meal specifically for me using gluten free noodles. This was in Denver though and I have no idea about other Maggiano's or if they still offer this option. Amy's definitely makes the best frozen meals! My favorite is the brown rice with veggies and tofu too! It's delicious! A few days ago I purchased some soyjoy bars. They are gluten free and pretty tasty. I definitely recommend the strawberry, apple, and berry flavors. Hope this helps and best wishes to you.
#7 ( Christine)
Hi, Erica! Thanks for writing this. I'm in my 30s and, I'll tell ya, I feel exactly the same way. It's changed my whole social life and really defined who my friends are to a certain extent. I hope you do OK at college; just know that eventually you stop minding that you can't eat out. I don't even crave fast food anymore, except for one week a month. Good luck and thanks again for writing!
#8 ( Justine)
Hi Erica!
When I was about 18 months old, I was diagnosed with celiac disease. Now I am 12 and I'm perfectly fine. I read your article and I thought it was really interesting. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you to have to completely cut gluten out of your diet after you had been eating it so long. I don't know where you live or the restaurants that you have nearby, but Outback and the Longhorn are really great at catering to gluten intolerance, and I love their food. But in the article you wrote you said you can't eat at Panera. I do eat there, but I get the chicken Cesar salad with no croƻtons and they have to use a clean bowl and clean gloves. Also, In north Conway there are 2 gluten free restaurants ( one is Raffertys pub but I don't know the other's name ) and I have heard they have delicious food. I also read that you like snack bars, and I have found that almost all of the Atkins bars are gluten free! I think they are really good. I hope I helped you a little bit!
#9 ( chris)
Wow Erica this does seem like a lot of things that I went through - but I use being a glutamaniac as a gift - it enables me to make friends with ALL the staff in restaurants and cafes and sometimes I meet very interesting people this way and get a good name for myself also ... I think lol
Good luck and use your problems as gifts.
