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Hi,

 

I'm new here and was hoping for suggestions/ advice for a school situation that we are struggling with.

 

My 6 year old son can't eat gluten (we haven't been able to test for celiac because he has never been able to ingest it directly - he reacted severely to it through my breastmilk from birth.) He is also allergic (non-IgE mediated) to rice. His reaction to cross-contact, even just a crumb, is mucousy, intestinal bleeding, and lots of it.

 

While gluten-free without rice is challenging, we've learned to manage it over the past 5+ years. However, we were blindsided the week before school started this year with an extreme nut allergy policy. He is not allowed to bring anything that is made in a facility that uses peanuts, tree nuts or sesame (and technically, that includes my home kitchen). This eliminates almost every packaged food that is safe for him, including the flours and guar gum I use to bake.

I can't purchase flours or guar gum locally to meet these requirements and it is ridiculously expensive to have to order them through the mail in the quantities necessary for my family- because of his rice allergy I have to make almost all of our baked goods and most everything else from scratch.

 

While I understand the severity of nut allergies, I think this particular policy is over the top when it interferes with my ability to send a safe lunch with enough calories for my son. He has already lost a pound since the start of school 2 weeks ago. I think the thing I find most galling about this is that the school kitchen that the teachers use actually has nuts and peanut butter in it.

 

I have an appointment with his allergist at the end of the month, but in the meantime,

has anyone here ever had to deal with anything like this? 

 

 

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weluvgators Explorer

Our experiences are in Australia, but we negotiated nut policies when we first came. Most if not all schools here are nut free, but they do not go to shared facility declarations for what others can eat. I don't think there is good basis for that. We were actually able to negotiate that our kids were allowed to bring nut milks because of their diet restrictions. Good luck, Mama! I know how exhausting these continual negotiations can be.

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Mizzo Enthusiast

We have been gluten and nut free in school for years. However, my DD can have rice so eliminating that certainly makes it very challenging.  Do you have someone with nut allergies in your child's classroom ? If you don't , you may have lotz of wiggle room with the (made in facility rule ) if you do you should start with a request for change in classroom .   There may not be many rice free/nut free packaged foods but home made meals can be supplied and we have had usage of microwaves in school for years .  Start with a sit down mtg with the principal, I have found them to be more accommodating than expected.

 

good luck 

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That policy sounds crazy.  I can see not using a shared facility for food that the allergic individuals are consuming, but not for food others are consuming.  I don't think that there is any science behind that.  That packaging warning is not even required.  What does the school do, phone all facilities of all the places that families use?  Do they even check?  How reasonable is this policy if there are nuts in the teacher's kitchen?  Can you bend the rules?

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StephanieL Enthusiast

There are people who are allergic enough that they need that strict a rule.  They are few and far between.  

 

That said, facility warnings are 100% optional. The school doesn't know that something is from a nut free facility because they manufacturers don't have to say that and I HIGHLY doubt that every single snack coming in is from a PN free facility.  I would not pack anything with nuts in it but "processed in" free school- I doubt that is happening at all. 

 

The school won't tell you if there is an allergic child in the school so I would set up an area where your kid eats slightly away from others  (but not too removed) and call it a day. I would also make sure your child knows there is no sharing.  Setting it up this way, if there is a child with a severe enough nut allergy that it would be an issue, they can park that kiddo on the other side of the table or whatever so BOTH kids are safe!

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I would try to be understanding. What if that was your child? Wouldn't you be glad that there was a policy? I was talking to our school kitchen worker and she made an interesting observation. She said that most kids, all kids throw away most of their lunch at school. She said kids need very little food at school They just want to get it done with and go play. With that in mind, think of lunch as a snack and don't stress it so much. Send some nice fruits and and snacks. But feed him a big lunch when he gets home. That is what my kids do and they aren't gluten-free. at school. They eat mostly gluten-free here because that is all I fix.

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bartfull Rising Star

Hard boiled eggs? Lettuce wraps with various different meats? Cheese? Fruit?  

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Our school is nut free (not to the extent of yours) so lots of our favorite snacks are out.  However, it is just one meal a day.  I send his lunchbox full of fruits, yogurt, mini kebabs made from ham and cheese, meatballs, veggies and dip, hummus, hard boiled eggs, etc.  Mostly foods that are naturally gluten free AND nut free.  Since I bake with mostly almond flour, I just don't send any baked goods in his lunch.  He is getting plenty of food and if he is hungry when he gets home, no problem.  If I need to add something more "filling", I do popcorn.  He also likes "flax muffins" (ground flax seed, eggs, brown sugar, baking soda, fruit) and those are very filling (just google it . . . many people on low carb diets love them)

 

I think you can come up with plenty ideas that will work.  It won't be as convenient as pre-packaged food, but it will work.  Get a bento-style lunch container so you can do a variety of foods.  We like Rubbermaid "lunchblox".  Great for dips, yogurt, salads, etc.

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But the "policy" is fundamentally flawed, and that is the issue in my opinion. Technically, the home kitchen is a facility with nuts. I appreciate the severity of nut allergies, and we are very mindful of our own consumption to minimise/avoid risk to others. But policies that have to be ignored to be practical are dangerous. We ask which allergies are in our kids' classrooms and other close classes. We no longer need nut products in their school diets, so they eat nut free at school. As well, they wash face and hands with soap and water after eating nut products at home before school. Those types of policies are more important than declaring an impossible and impractical policy that cannot be understood and reasonably implemented. We also keep kiwi at home because our current school has an anaphylactic kiwi allergy child.

I hope you can find some safe foods that are practical for you and your child. Freedom Foods and Orgran are a couple of Australia brands that cater to gluten free living, and both have comprehensive nut policies as well. My kids eat a fair bit of food at school. I don't know the extent of your restrictions, so let us know if you want more food/snack ideas. My kids like sausages with beans, sun butter and jelly sandwiches, roasted zucchini with rosemary oil, salt and pepper, red pepper/carrots/celery with and without hummus, oranges/apples/nectarines/peaches/blueberries/strawberries, corn chips/tortillas with nacho/taco fixings, potato chips, cheese, custard, yogurt. All of my kids eat differently and their preferences change over time.

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I would try to be understanding. What if that was your child? Wouldn't you be glad that there was a policy? I was talking to our school kitchen worker and she made an interesting observation. She said that most kids, all kids throw away most of their lunch at school. She said kids need very little food at school They just want to get it done with and go play. With that in mind, think of lunch as a snack and don't stress it so much. Send some nice fruits and and snacks. But feed him a big lunch when he gets home. That is what my kids do and they aren't gluten-free. at school. They eat mostly gluten-free here because that is all I fix.

 

It is her child, but with different dietary needs.  Why should this one child's dietary needs supersede her son's?  The nut allergic child also needs to adapt to being in a school where this policy will only give a false sense of security....and a child not eating lunch during the school day just is not a good idea at all.  Sorry that you got such bad information from the kitchen worker but chances are kids throw away their lunch because it just doesn't taste good.  It's not that they don't need to eat.  Every teacher in the school could point out the kids in his/her class that came to school with a good breakfast and ate a good lunch.....

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StephanieL Enthusiast

The potential of a kid dying kind of does supersede another kids dietary needs.  There ARE kids who need that wide of an accommodation.  

 

I am not a proponent of schools banning nuts for exactly as you stated, it gives people a false sense of security and TYPICALLY is overdoing it.  There are many different ways people choose to deal with it and it sounds like the school has made that decision so I don't think arguing the policy is really worth it at this point. I think giving ideas how to work with the policy is more important at this point unless the OP is looking to fight the policy, which I would if I felt strongly about the need for my kid to have nut products at lunch.  I do think there could be a meeting in the middle if it is NECESSARY to have nut products in the kiddos lunch.

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dilettantesteph Collaborator

There are people who are allergic enough that they need that strict a rule.

 

Can you provide evidence for this statement?

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The potential of a kid dying due to allergies extends far beyond nut allergies. One of my children has anaphylactic wheat allergy and had to be hospitalised twice with emergency surgery before we could get the school to consider her needs seriously.

I don't think most here generally oppose accommodating nut free school policies, but the "no one can eat food from a nut shared facility" is an impossible "policy" and demonstrates dangerous ignorance from the very people responsible for keeping ALL children in their duty of care safe. I have never run across the suggestion before that such an imposing policy is required for any allergy. I would appreciate if anyone can share information that supports such an extreme policy. I would be very curious what the school policy is for children when they get to school for hand and face washing of all students, as that seems a far more legitimate exposure potential in our experiences.

HappyPlace, I am sorry to report that every single Freedom Foods product in my cupboard with one exception had rice in it. Good luck getting it all sorted. We had a very hard, hard, hard time when we started in the school system in the US. I hope that you have understanding and compassionate people to work with.

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(I messed up the quoting, sorry)


"The potential of a kid dying due to allergies extends far beyond nut allergies. One of my children has anaphylactic wheat allergy and had to be hospitalised twice with emergency surgery before we could get the school to consider her needs seriously.

I don't think most here generally oppose accommodating nut free school policies, but the "no one can eat food from a nut shared facility" is an impossible "policy" and demonstrates dangerous ignorance from the very people responsible for keeping ALL children in their duty of care safe. "

 

I completely understand this. My DS has anaphylaxis to 4 foods so I get that there are other potentially deadly allergies which is another reason I am NOT in general support of a ban on ANY food.  I believe I have said I don't support it. I also said I completely agree that the facility is a complete overdoing of it esp because that is a purely voluntary warning and just because something doesn't say it's from a shared facility doesn't mean it isn't. 

 

BUT if that is the school policy there should be ways to work with them to allow the PO's child to bring in what she/he needs while keeping the other children safe as well. 

 

Can you provide evidence for this statement?

That there are people with airborne and contact allergies to nuts?  There is plenty of evidence out there that there are some who do require that level of accommodation.  

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dilettantesteph Collaborator

No, I was looking for evidence for your statement that a child's allergy would require people around him to only eat food obtained from an allergy free facility.

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No, I was looking for evidence for your statement that a child's allergy would require people around him to only eat food obtained from an allergy free facility.

 

There are people who are that highly sensitive. I don't exactly understand what evidence of that I can provide you with aside from people I personally know/

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dilettantesteph Collaborator

It should then not be stated as a fact per board rules: "5) Any claims you make here should be based on legitimate sources, or be expressed as opinion, experience, or inquiry."

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It should then not be stated as a fact per board rules: "5) Any claims you make here should be based on legitimate sources, or be expressed as opinion, experience, or inq

Are you serious?  I am stating there are people who are sensitive enough that they need certain accommodations to be safe in a school environment.  I have stated SEVERAL times that they are few and far between. I have stated that there are ways to make accommodations so that every student is kept safe. 

 

I am sorry that my years here on this site and my years living with a child with life threatening food allergies doesn't give me any credibility with you however may people here post personal EXPERIENCES.  I do not have a study on how many kids need these kinds of accommodations but that does not mean that it doesn't happen.  Again, as I stated most likely because they are few and far between. 

 

I'm really trying to understand what your issue is.  There is a rule and the OP can fight it or deal with it however they see fit. Why are you questioning what I know and have seen, because there isn't a study on it?  

 

I am done with this thread as I obviously have nothing credible to add.

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bartfull Rising Star

There are quite a few folks here who claim they are so sensitive that they can't eat anything from a facility that also processes wheat without getting a celiac reaction.

 

I am sure there are kids with peanut allergies who are just as sensitive. And with the potential for kids at school to trade lunches or desserts, plus the potential for kids to not wash their hands before touching their own food and after touching other kid's food or hands, it is only common sense that they MIGHT react. And with peanut allergies being so deadly in some kids, I can understand and even applaud the rule at this school.

 

Don't we all wish there were rules like that in place for gluten? And although gluten can kill us over the long term, peanuts can kill a highly allergic person instantly. If one mother MIGHT be spared the heartbreak of losing a child due to peanut CC, it is all worth it.

 

IN MY OPINION.

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StephanieL Enthusiast

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BlessedMommy Rising Star

If the school also has a shared kitchen with peanut and nut products, then I would take this rule to mean that the rule for dedicated facilities doesn't include one's home. I'm all for keeping kids safe, but it wouldn't be realistic to expect every family in the school to run a nut free house.

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Is this policy for the classroom or the school?

 

My daughter has been in a nut-free CLASSROOM before (meaning everything that enters the room must be commercially prepared in a nut-free facility - this would be for student snacks, holiday and birthday parties, etc), but the LUNCHROOM was a free-for-all with the nut-free kids all sitting at the same tables.

 

Personally, I don't have an issue with a nut-free classroom (partly, because I'd like to see hers as a gluten-free classroom, but that's not a fight I want to deal with), but I can not imagine a scenario that would allow for a nut-free LUNCHROOM.  I mean, I send food that I prepared every day for lunch.  It's simply impossible to ask all families to not provide home prepared foods for lunch.

 

Am I missing something?

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It should then not be stated as a fact per board rules: "5) Any claims you make here should be based on legitimate sources, or be expressed as opinion, experience, or inquiry."

 

Oh come now, Steph..let's be real here ^_^

 

I have seen dozens of flagrant violations of this particular rule, especially on the super sensitive section where people's "anecdotal evidence" is ALL that is ever used to support various "theories" and thoughts and when moderators have asked for sources, we've been blasted for it.

 

I think you're taking issue with StephanieL here for no good cause. She's a mother of a child with severe allergies who has years of experience and

she is allowed to voice her thoughts without being jumped on for this sentence.

 

IN MY OPINION.

Are you serious?  I am stating there are people who are sensitive enough that they need certain accommodations to be safe in a school environment.  I have stated SEVERAL times that they are few and far between. I have stated that there are ways to make accommodations so that every student is kept safe. 

 

I am sorry that my years here on this site and my years living with a child with life threatening food allergies doesn't give me any credibility with you however may people here post personal EXPERIENCES.  I do not have a study on how many kids need these kinds of accommodations but that does not mean that it doesn't happen.  Again, as I stated most likely because they are few and far between. 

 

I'm really trying to understand what your issue is.  There is a rule and the OP can fight it or deal with it however they see fit. Why are you questioning what I know and have seen, because there isn't a study on it?  

 

I am done with this thread as I obviously have nothing credible to add.

 

You have every right to voice your thoughts and I find you very credible. I find nothing wrong with your statements and I hope you will continue to help other parents of children with allergies. 

 

Please do not get driven off--that would be a huge loss!

 

I know a few people who are highly allergic to various foods and substances (one on this board), so I did not find your statement unreasonable or unfounded at all!

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I've read through this thread and believe that your posts would be helpful to others and not in need of clarification.

Your friend, the bubble girl and her bubble kids along with the bubble grands ;)

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Oh come now, Steph..let's be real here ^_^

 

I have seen dozens of flagrant violations of this particular rule, especially on the super sensitive section where people's "anecdotal evidence" is ALL that is ever used to support various "theories" and thoughts and when moderators have asked for sources, we've been blasted for it.

 

Exactly, and it is because of moderators response to thit that I have reread the board rules and I am very careful to provide evidence for what I say, or to state it as experience or opinion.

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