Any One Hv To Drop Out Of School To Get Better? College student
#1
Posted 06 October 2009 - 11:25 AM
#2
Posted 06 October 2009 - 12:01 PM
cyoshimit, on Oct 6 2009, 02:25 PM, said:
I had to drop out. I got through 2 1/2 years of college and the doctors visits, inability to get out of bed, ER visits, depression/anxiety, inability to sleep/sleeping all the time... it just got to be too much. I did not even know what my problem was until a little more than a year after I quit school. But, in retrospect, leaving school was the best thing I did -- but this is just in my experience. After quitting school, I got a job that started out part time and eventually I started working full time. My boss has been extremely understanding when it comes to my health.
There is no definite answer to your question - take the time to get better. No two people are the same in this situation - what worked for me may not necessarily work for you. Some take longer to feel better while others feel better the next day. It took me quite a while to be functional again - but I did get there
dx celiac disease- November 1, 2008
dairy/casein free (much to my chagrin) for good- September 1, 2010
#3
Posted 06 October 2009 - 06:22 PM
I would take the time to let your body heal if its a possibiblity if not try taking part time hours while you are figuring out your body.
Things will get eaiser I promise!!
#4
Posted 07 October 2009 - 12:44 AM
summerteeth, on Oct 6 2009, 10:01 AM, said:
There is no definite answer to your question - take the time to get better. No two people are the same in this situation - what worked for me may not necessarily work for you. Some take longer to feel better while others feel better the next day. It took me quite a while to be functional again - but I did get there
thanks for shaing your experience with me. It puts my mind at ease. It is difficult to do both and I didn't want to give in but I think that I might. So I can focus on my health. I guess I'm a little scared bout dropping because I hope that I'll be able to go back to school. I want to accomplish something but maybe that something isn't school right now. Iv been in and out of school because of the mysterious sumptoms of celiac and depression before I figured out what was making me sick. Kinda sucks that I hv to sit on the sidelines for a little longer while I heal:) one day at a time right?
#5
Posted 07 October 2009 - 12:46 AM
skinnyminny, on Oct 6 2009, 04:22 PM, said:
I would take the time to let your body heal if its a possibiblity if not try taking part time hours while you are figuring out your body.
Things will get eaiser I promise!!
I totally see your point. I'm prob gonna drop and take care of myself. It will be one less thing that I hv to worry about while trying to heal.
#6
Posted 07 October 2009 - 03:00 AM
cyoshimit, on Oct 7 2009, 03:44 AM, said:
Exactly. The myriad of complications - ie, depression, anxiety - that come with celiac disease is really what kept me down. My doctors thought I had bipolar disorder, yet it was what the medications did to me that made them realize that it was something else. Eventually after I had searched high and low for a solution, I mentioned to my doctors celiac disease and was eventually diagnosed.
The anxiety is really what made school that much harder for me.
I hope you start feeling better soon
dx celiac disease- November 1, 2008
dairy/casein free (much to my chagrin) for good- September 1, 2010
#7
Posted 07 October 2009 - 09:37 AM
Hope that helps.
#8
Posted 08 October 2009 - 08:03 AM
cyoshimit, on Oct 6 2009, 11:25 AM, said:
I graduated from college a couple of years ago -- and I tell you this to give you hope! I was diagnosed last March with Celiac and have been on the gluten free diet since. I have always been an artistic, creative person. I love to draw, color, paint, write poetry, short stories, etc... There was a period of time for about 8 years I just could not do those things. I could not concentrate or think long enough to come up with a cool, creative idea. I would just end up getting frustrated and giving up. It was actually really awful. Since being gluten free now since March, I have noticed it getting progressively better. I actually finished my first creative short story a month ago since about 9 years ago... I have started drawing again and I'm actually thinking about writing a creative book for kids with Celiac and illustrating it myself. Trust me, the fog does lift! I promise. It takes a little time, but it does go away and it's amazing how good you feel.
Anyway, back to the college issue... I did okay my first year in college -- not great, but okay. I spent a lot of time by myself in my dorm room because my stomach hurt so bad every day, I was in a bad mood, irritable, couldn't think, couldn't sleep. I was depressed, had trouble studying and reading. I decided to switch schools to be closer to home because I'd been feeling so bad all the time. Well, I came back closer to home and I completely flunked out of school that whole first semester. I just could not make myself get up in the mornings nights after I'd been sick (Which was most nights). I hurt all the time, my muscles ached, I couldn't think, couldn't eat, I was so weak and tired and sad. Well, I got some counseling for the depression issue and that definitely helped some. The next semester I took one class. That's it. Just one. I made myself give everything I had to that one class. I ended up getting a B in it. I decided to take more night classes because they were only one night a week generally and the teachers were a little more understanding about if I had to miss classes. Something that might help you, too, is taking online classes if your school offers them. These allow you to not have to actually go to class. They are SO NICE when you feel so bad! You can just sit at home and do your work on the couch. If you're not feeling good all day long but you find that at 8 pm you feel good enough to do some work, you can do it then. If you wake up at 2 am and can't sleep but feel like working on school, you can do it then. I think online classes are a great way to go for people like us who cannot always plan on making ourselves attend classes.
Hope some of that helps! And don't give up on the creativity! The world needs more creative people!! I've found that it is helpful for me to share my creative poems and drawings with people I Trust --- they give me positive feedback, which makes me feel good, and it makes me want to keep trying! And by the way, taking primarily night classes and online classes, I was able to graduate in about 5 years from college with my undergrad degree and a GPA of 3.8. So, it is possible!!!
#9
Posted 08 October 2009 - 08:43 PM
depression
coeliac
non attendance= drop out
#10
Posted 08 October 2009 - 11:20 PM
cyoshimit, on Oct 6 2009, 12:25 PM, said:
I am so excited to read this because I can relate 100%. I dropped out of high school and got my GED. This was because I had Celiac Disease and did not know it at the time. I can struggling right now to finish my application to college right now (i'm 17) and it is a college i absolutely love. I just want to feel normal. I love drawing too and I too cannot write off this artistic block nonsense anymore. it's not that i don't have ideas ...i have no energy to do or make anything. i am functioning at a minimum and i am always in pain. why do we have to sound insane?
--Hermann Hesse
#11
Posted 08 October 2009 - 11:46 PM
#12
Posted 09 October 2009 - 01:48 AM
#13
Posted 09 October 2009 - 01:50 AM
skinnyminny, on Oct 7 2009, 07:37 AM, said:
Hope that helps.
Yes that does help. Thank you:)
#14
Posted 09 October 2009 - 03:24 AM
There are many people here who have already shared their experiences, I would just add that it may be worth informing your course coordinator or someone in administration that you are intending to defer your studies for medical reasons. This could make a difference to how easy it is for you to resume your studies, or how easy it is to get those subjects/work credited to you if you study elsewhere later.
I hope you start feeling better soon, and don't be afraid to give yourself some time to heal. Like me you may be amazed at how much your health is affecting your work, I didn't realise how sick I was until I started to get better.
Sophie
#15
Posted 11 October 2009 - 02:06 PM
While it was difficult and challenging at times dealing with everything and tackling all of my coursework, I did it because I stuck with it. I realized that because of all I was dealing with, I just had to work harder, probably harder than everyone else, but I did it and achieved academic excellence because of it. Sure, there were times I was very sick from celiac or the other things I was dealing with and I felt as if I would never graduate or do much of anything else, and I felt like the last thing I wanted to do was homework or studying. Last summer, I had half of my thyroid removed beacuse there was a possibility that I had cancer in it, and I had to worry about that in addition to taking a full course load that summer as I did every summer. I still had to write term papers while in my hospital bed, still studied through long nights at the hospital, and still had to drag my butt into class when I felt like complete and total crap. I can totally commiserate with you and it because I have been there a lot myself that I can tell you to stay positive, focus on your classes, and work even harder towards your goals. No one said it was going to be easy, but it is definitely well worth it. When I'm feeling particularly sick, I look at my diploma and contemplate how hard I had to work to get that degree and how far I have come, and it makes me feel very proud. Another option you should look into is whether or not your university offers any online classes or hybrid classes which enable you to do most of your classwork online and attend class only a few times throughout the semester. I had the luxury of taking some online classes at my university, which definitely helped me throughout being so sick. I wish you well and lots of luck, and I hope that you start to feel better. Just hang in there as long as you can because it will get better. And you can remind yourself that things could always, always be much worse. Good luck.
- Thursday
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process, he does not become one himself."
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