I'm not at all suprized. That's how it is with me. I've had varying degrees and types of reactions my whole life. You should definitely eliminate it. You may be suprized how it helps with other things that you hadn't realized. I love cheese etc. but suprizingly I could breathe so much better off it that I was motivated to stay off!
Dairy-free is doable.
There is hope too. After eliminating dairy for a year, the allergist and I tested the waters with goat's milk products and much to my suprize I am tolerating them well. I was tested for goat's milk shortly after that and it was neg. so far so good.
Hmm, thanks for the info. It's so weird, but seems to be accurate. Yesterday, absolutely everything I ate was for-sure gluten-free, and I made sure to throw in about 3 different kinds of dairy. Sure enough, my ears were on fire by the time I went to bed, and my lower abdomen has been bloated all day.
Part of me is afraid that if I totally eliminate dairy, even though a little bit seems ok, that eventually I won't be able to tolerate any at all.

So today I tried to mix it up - take-out (totally gluten-free) Greek salad (cow's milk feta) and gluten-free pizza with goat's cheese. Unfortunately, they put feta on my pizza, so that was twice as much dairy as I had intended. Ears still hurt, stomach still distended and feeling uncomfortable.
My Dr warned me that once I started feeling better without gluten, other issues might come out of the woodwork. Too bad she's so darn smart!!