I agree i'm probably getting cc'd somewhere, i live with my mum and brother, mum is a celiac but not too sensitive and my brother is a wheatmonster. He's not careful either and never will be, just the way it is, so i've started washing anything before i use it. I realised whilst eating my gluten free cereal a dried coco pop on the side of the bowl i was using from where he'd half assed the washing up. Never again.
The dairy thing, i will see about making my own pro-biotics, it sounds fun and i will se how it goes, or try and find some dairy free ones. I can tolerate lacto-free milk just fine so maybe a mix of both. I should probably cut out chocolate completely then, sigh! No worries though, i found some amazing lemony biscuits wheat free of course to satisfy those cravings.
Never knew about wax on veggies! Will now check! Feels like my life will be checklists from now on, but i don't mind to be honest, better safe than sorry.
Man, you guys have cheered me up, and feel more normal. Thank you so much. *virtual hugs to all*