Either way, only you can decide if your health is important to you.
Folks here will help you through the process of going gluten-free (once testing is complete if you choose that route). Sometimes once you get gluten out of your system, cravings may reduce or stop.
It seems tough when you start, but will eventually seem normal. Feeling better can be a good incentive.
I wonder if you were getting some cross contamination before?
Try the newbie 101 thread in 'coping with'.
Celiac and gluten intolerance can both affect a whole range of health issues, including fertility. It is also genetic, so has a chance of affecting any kids.
We take im pretty seriously around here, and are passionate about helping people, but you have to want to do it