Thanks for all the replies everyone! The community here is so amazing. I don’t think I was as clear yesterday with my post as I could have been so I will attempt to clarify. (Brain fog is no fun) I probably should have waited until my mind cleared a bit before posting but I was really angry and needed to vent.
I should first say that while my kitchen is gluten-free, the floor of said kitchen is probably not. Also, there were a lot of problems awhile ago with people not washing their hands before putting away the dishes. Mainly my father who would have a beer and then put away the dishes.
Kareng – That is a possibility and it actually happened with me once with mushrooms I didn’t wash as thoroughly as I thought I did. My boyfriend ate the exact same ones and was fine but I really wasn’t. I hope it was just that rather than gluten because the effects went away much quicker than those of gluten.
Pricklypear1971 – That could definitely be part of the issue. My brother wouldn’t be the cause of this but my Dad is likely the culprit if that is the case.
Bartfull/Nikki2777/IrishHeart – I don’t believe there to be any malicious intent, I’ve educated them both, and my mother has as well. I think it comes down to apathy or not thinking about the consequences of their actions. Most of the times I’ve been glutened (not including the beginning, because I had NO idea what I was doing. “Hey, Pizza Pizza has a gluten-free pizza, let’s order that.”) I can trace it back to one of them. Although mainly my father.
GottaSki – It took me a long time to figure out that dairy isn’t my friend right now. I think I might try looking to see if I have any others.