Celiac Roommate in Parents, Friends and Loved Ones of Celiacs Posted November 14, 2011 · Report to Admin I think I would just say something like "hey, I notice you are not on the gluten free diet right now, so can we relax the rules at home for now?" Or, "now that you are taking a break from the diet, I am going to relax the rules at home. Just let me know when you want to go back to a safer kitchen." Or something similar. The point being, let him know you are aware and not judging, but would like a break while he takes his break.