Hi jeepgirl, my name is Stacie and live in Georgia, I am 32 with 2 children and married to a wonderful man too, that has been very supportive during my sickness (since August 2002).
I am sorry you are not feeling well but it does sound like you are on top of things. Since your mother has the disease I am sure you are familiar with it, which is a blessing! Most people have never even heard of this strange disease, I mean, allergic to gluten?!?!?! Heck I had never even heard of gluten and had no idea that it was a lot more involved than just looking for the word "gluten".
Have you been tested for Sprue (celiac disease) or are you on a gluten free diet?
I found a list of support groups in NC from this site, I don't know if they are pretty close to you or not but it's worth a shot. I have to drive over an hour to get to the one here in GA

but I'm sure it will be worth it!!
Anyway, I do hope you being to feel better soon. Here is the list:
North Carolina
Asheville - - Resource:
Contact: Leah R. Karpen
518 Ox Creek Road
Weaverville, NC 28787
Tel: (704) 645-9067
Boone - Resource:
Contact: Ernest Lane
827 Blairmont Dr.
Boone, NC 28607
Tel: (704) 264-4618 or (704) 262-2380
E-mail: epl@math.appstate.edu
Chapel Hill - Resource:
Contact: Connie Margolin
908 Kings Mill Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
Tel: (919) 967-9954
E-mail: ThirdEar0@aol.com
Charlotte - Support Group
Contact 1: Caroline Herdle
Charlotte - Mecklenburg Celiac Support Group
14314 Harbor Estates Rd.
Charlotte, NC 28278
Tel: (704) 588-6842
E-mail: Katahdin1@pipeline.com
Contact 2: Daphne Ledford
3947 Abingdon Rd.
Charlotte, NC 28211
Tel: (704) 366-3493
Contact 3: Marsha Beers
9038 Gray Birch Court
Charlotte, NC 28215
Tel: (704) 597-0826
E-mail: EWOKSMOM@aol.com
Durham - Fayetteville Support Group
Contact 1: Ruth Thomas
North Carolina Celiacs (CSA)
Tel: (919) 542-4030
Contact 2: Susan Black
Tel: (910) 875-3186
Forest City - Resource:
Contact: Lisa Sievers
141 Greenbriar Dr.
Forest City, NC 28043
E-mail: sie@blueridge.net
Greensboro - Resource:
Contact: Phebe W. Erdman
3205 Oak Ridge Rd.
Summerfield, NC 27358
Tel: (910) 643-1365
Raleigh - Support Group
Contact: Sally Davis Comer
129 W. Park Drive
Raleigh, NC 27605
Tel: (919) 932-7285
E-mail: SComer3470@AOL.COM
Raleigh-Durham - Support Group
Contact 1: Sally Davis Comer
Triangle Celiac Support Group
129 W. Park Drive
Raleigh, NC 27605
Tel: (919) 932-7285
E-mail: SComer3470@AOL.COM
Contact 2: Diana Clarke
E-mail: DeBucket@aol.com
Contact 3: Connie Margolin
E-mail: ThirdEar0@aol.com
Summerfield - Resource:
Contact: Phebe W. Erdman
3205 Oak Ridge Rd.
Summerfield, NC 27358
Tel: (910) 643-1365
Winston-Salem - Resource:
Contact: Pam Brown
6295 Lochinvar Drive
Rural Hall, NC 27045
Tel: (910) 377-2687