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Rowena

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Okay so I am a people pleaser, and my parents are sort of hard to please. All my life I have worked hard to please them. They were the kind of parents who if I didnt get an A in my classes (particularly math) they would say its not good enough. So all through high school and first year and a half of college, I wasnt good enough. Yeah, well thats just a little example. But anyway, it was ever so hard to get them to say even just a good job.

Anyway, I had to tell someone how I was feelin and how much better I feel after workin so hard to get this way, and so I called up my mom. She actually told me, after I told her all my excitements of late, (most of which I have shared with all ya'll already as they have happened.) that she was really proud of me. That, in my recollection has never happened! I am so utterly overjoyed, that I cannot explain how I feel. All I can say is that I have tears in my eyes...

Anyway, I just wanted to share with all ya'll that little tidbit.

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My parents were a bit like that, too. I don't know how old you are, but as I got older and had kids, I realized that a lot of it wasn't that The B+ wasn't good enough. It was just that they thought I could do better if I studied a little more.

I try to tell my kids that as long as they tried hard, then it's a good grade. We tell them that the decision to study or get help with a class is theirs. I can make them sit with a book, but I can't make them learn. These decisions will determine the path their lives will take. What schools or programs they can get into. Even if a teacher will cut you a little slack if something goes wrong and you are usually a good student.

Off my parenting lecture & back to Rowena. :). I'm happy that your mom was able to tell you that. If you can find something nice to say about her and how she helped you, it might encourage a New Age of Openess.

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Okay so I am a people pleaser, and my parents are sort of hard to please. All my life I have worked hard to please them. They were the kind of parents who if I didnt get an A in my classes (particularly math) they would say its not good enough. So all through high school and first year and a half of college, I wasnt good enough. Yeah, well thats just a little example. But anyway, it was ever so hard to get them to say even just a good job.

Anyway, I had to tell someone how I was feelin and how much better I feel after workin so hard to get this way, and so I called up my mom. She actually told me, after I told her all my excitements of late, (most of which I have shared with all ya'll already as they have happened.) that she was really proud of me. That, in my recollection has never happened! I am so utterly overjoyed, that I cannot explain how I feel. All I can say is that I have tears in my eyes...

Anyway, I just wanted to share with all ya'll that little tidbit.

How sweet & awesome that she said that!!

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Yeah, when you finally measure up after never being quite good enough, it is an awesome feeling. How long some of us struggle for just that one moment of praise :o:D YOUR MOM IS PROUD OF YOU!!! Yay.

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