Jump to content
  • Welcome to Celiac.com!

    You have found your celiac tribe! Join us and ask questions in our forum, share your story, and connect with others.




  • Celiac.com Sponsor (A1):



    Celiac.com Sponsor (A1-M):


  • Get Celiac.com Updates:
    Support Our Content
    eNewsletter
    Donate

Top Five Reasons To Get A New Doctor


mamabear

Recommended Posts

curlyfries Contributor

My family dr recommended a rheumatologist when the meds he had me on for fibromyalgia just wasn't working well enough for me. It took 3 months before I could see him. They sent me the pages and pages of paperwork to fill out. When I got there they had no record of my app't, but they couldn't deny it because I had the paperwork they had sent. I had the choice of making a new app't or waiting til the end of the day to see a different dr. I chose to wait. He poked around and asked, "does this hurt?' several times ,only to tell me, "You have tennis elbow :D . Oh, you have tennis hip ;) . You have tennis knee ;);) . I think he thought he was funny, or he was trying to humor the hypochondriac :angry: He put me on an exercise regimen that even a 90 yr old that can get out bed and stand on two feet could do.


Celiac.com Sponsor (A8):
Celiac.com Sponsor (A8):



Celiac.com Sponsor (A8-M):



  • Replies 183
  • Created
  • Last Reply
whitball Explorer

I took my 17 year old daughter to see the doc to find out why she is tired all of the time. We ended up seeing a resident, rather than our usual doc. I explained her symptoms and asked to have her tested for celiac disease. The resident looked at her chart and noticed that she was on the pill last year. She was placed on the pill for menstral pain along with heavy bleeding. He told us that since she was on the pill, he wanted to do a pelvic exam and to do a pregnancy test. My daughter was having her period and I told him so. He again insisted on doing both tests. My daughter is not sexually active at this time, so I refused both and demanded a regular blood work up, including the tests for celiac disease. I threatened to put the man in a headlock until he tapped out and agreed to do the tests. He had to go talk to his supervisor and came back again with permission to do the tests. Amazing what we need to do to get people to listen.

Jestgar Rising Star
I threatened to put the man in a headlock until he tapped out and agreed to do the tests. He had to go talk to his supervisor and came back again with permission to do the tests. Amazing what we need to do to get people to listen.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

home-based-mom Contributor

I think I see a pattern here.

Those who think they know it all get really annoyed by and do NOT want to listen to those of us who really do know it all!

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::rolleyes:

babygirl1234 Rookie

i guess the doctor didnt want to be put in a headlock lol

  • 2 weeks later...
Aleshia Contributor

I *think* I found a good dr this time... he's willing to do the bloodwork for celiac but is still stuck on this gall bladder thing... at least he isn't telling me that the abdominal/rib pain that I get along with gas/burping ins't just because i'm constipated... the last dr thinks I must have been constipated for the last 9 years straight... and said that constipation is what makes me vomit.... ?? anyway this dr i have now spent more than 1 1/2 hours with me on my first visit and did chest xrays and labwork right during the visit. found out he's an internalist and is supposed to be good at figuring out unexplained symptoms... just hope he realizes its probably not my gallbladder... :)

Aleshia Contributor

thats what my dr said... you don't have celiac because you don't have dirarhea and you're not losing weight!.... its like don't they know anything????


Celiac.com Sponsor (A8):
Celiac.com Sponsor (A8):



Celiac.com Sponsor (A8-M):



Aleshia Contributor

ok, so this isn't celiac realted but it is dr related...

about 6 months after getting married I was with my husband at his office, they had some of those stacking chairs with the square metal legs and my husband being the kind of guy he was was tipping his back with the 2 front legs of the chair off the floor... my foot happened to be on the floor near him and he sat up straight very suddenly... so I had my husband's 190lbs of weight compressed into that little tiny chair leg on top of my foot.... needless to say it HURT!! so about 3 months later I decided I should see a Dr cause it was still hurting and we were getting ready to move internationally and I wanted to be sure that it wasn't broken or anything... the dr says "oh, its not because it got injured or anything that it hurts... its because you're overweight... (I was about 40-50lb's overweight) then he says, is your husband overweight too?? and I'm thinking... why's he asking this? is it because of how much weight would have come down on my foot??? then I said, no, he's tall and skinny.... THEN.... the dr says "so I guess that makes the nursery rhyme true doesn't it???" and I'm like "what nursery rhyme?" and he's like "Jack sprat could eat no fat his wife could eat no lean..." I wanted to deck him... he reluctantly agreed to do an xray then came back and said the machine was broken... and proceeded to bill me 170 dollars!!!!

man I think I need therapy over that one! :angry::angry::angry::angry::angry:

  • 2 months later...
LuvMoosic4life Collaborator

when the school nurse practitioner laughs at you b/c you have gas.

  • 3 weeks later...
nikky Contributor

Hows this:

when you tell the registra that for the last week you have had chronic lower right abdo pain and he just looks at you as if to say "what do you expect me to do about it", then after cheking me over he looked at the wall and said to go to A&E if it carried on but it isnt anything to worry about . (go figure).

Then 4 or 5 months later when you make an appointment with your GP because of this pain thats taking up your life they (the receptionist) say "oh its not an emergancy so you can wait a while" and gives you an appointment for over a months time, during which you change doctors. (3 days after switching i got an appointment)

Your new doctor tells you theres not much they can do, they think it may be coeliac related in which case its your GI's area... then when told of the registras response 5 months earlier they say "well i'll chase your GI up for you" ...

in the end you get an appointment for 7 months after the issue could have been resolved. Grrrrrrr. <_<

  • 3 weeks later...
siren Rookie
#5 You only get less than the average face time of 5 minutes per visit

#4 It takes over 10 minutes non stop talking to explain all your symptoms

#3 He/she says...... :huh: I thought it was a kiddie disease!

#2 He/she says.....do you really think you can follow that diet??

#1 There is only ONE restroom in the office!!! :blink:

LOL I so agree with that.. this post made my morning ty for the laugh :) but it is ever so true!!!

siren Rookie
thats what my dr said... you don't have celiac because you don't have dirarhea and you're not losing weight!.... its like don't they know anything????

If the doctor's did their research they would see you can gain weight as well as loose weight with this disease.. I went the other way and gained weight!! I am still having problems with things I eat.. I need to find a doctor that is WILLING to get me where I need to be.. not sure where to look in colorado for a good doc.. we just moved here..

siren~

Lockheed Apprentice

my doctor wasn't even kind enough to tell me it was all in my head.. he just gave me a written out referral to a psychiatrist. I really do have depression issues and already had been in therapy over that to have a doctor tell me that I need to see a psychiatrist because he thinks my complaints are made up. How made up is not being able to go to the bathroom for six weeks?

But then again he also thought my broken collar bone was a pulled muscle in my shoulder.

Fifi Newbie

I have been reading all of these and it just disgusts me that the people that WE need to help us can't. I have been researching things online and faxing them to my doctor and diagnosing myself. What is wrong with this picture???? Are there ANY good doctors out there??? anyone we can trust??? or do we just have each other?? This is really sad when our insurance money is paying these doctors when I am doing the research and faxing information so he can make an iformed decision on what kind of medication wil not react with other meds I am on???? Why can we not have our doctors talk to each other??? I have 6 doctors all for different things, they don't want to know what each other knows. I hear every day "I can't adjust that med because I didn't prescribe it" Well I am one person and you should all work together for my health right???? ok, well I have ranted enough sorry. :(

Jaimepsalm63 Rookie

how about, "You don't have Celiac, that's a sexually transmitted disease and you said you've only been with one person...your husband." WOW! RUNNNNN!!!!!

kbtoyssni Contributor
how about, "You don't have Celiac, that's a sexually transmitted disease and you said you've only been with one person...your husband." WOW! RUNNNNN!!!!!

Really!!???!! Your doctor said that??? I think this one wins my "worst/stupidest things a doc has said" contest!

Jaimepsalm63 Rookie

It's true. I changed offices not just doctors. I figured if one doctor said that then the others were just as bad.

I had already been reading up on Celiac and was gluten free before I was Dx with a biopsy.

The doc I have now had a questionnaire I made him fill out before I would see him. The first question was, "What is Celiac and how do you get it?" He passed with flying colours and that's why I still see him to this day.

My husband almost threw up when he heard the doctor say that. He asked where the doctor studied and what his GPA was. I think he barely met his requirements, but that's just from what I experienced from him. :o

kbtoyssni Contributor
The doc I have now had a questionnaire I made him fill out before I would see him. The first question was, "What is Celiac and how do you get it?" He passed with flying colours and that's why I still see him to this day.

I love this! I might do this myself since there's a possibility I might have to change doctors soon (due to moving, not to incompetence, my current doc is very celiac-aware so I hate to give her up).

nikky Contributor
I have been reading all of these and it just disgusts me that the people that WE need to help us can't. I have been researching things online and faxing them to my doctor and diagnosing myself. What is wrong with this picture???? Are there ANY good doctors out there??? anyone we can trust??? or do we just have each other?? This is really sad when our insurance money is paying these doctors when I am doing the research and faxing information so he can make an iformed decision on what kind of medication wil not react with other meds I am on???? Why can we not have our doctors talk to each other??? I have 6 doctors all for different things, they don't want to know what each other knows. I hear every day "I can't adjust that med because I didn't prescribe it" Well I am one person and you should all work together for my health right???? ok, well I have ranted enough sorry. :(

There is a good doctor out there, Dr.P.Dale of the Royal Gwent. He doesnt care if its not his area he still trys to help you, the only problem is theres no garuntee your going to see him, if hes not available you gave to see his registra who is a complete idiot. Oh and another thing hes a peadi so either when im 16 or 18 i have to stop seeing him :(

nikky Contributor
how about, "You don't have Celiac, that's a sexually transmitted disease and you said you've only been with one person...your husband." WOW! RUNNNNN!!!!!

ummm... are you sure that doctor was even qualified??????

frec Contributor

The doctor doesn't have to know everything and it isn't possible. My primary care doctor at least knows what celiac is, but I know more than he does. What is important is that he LISTENS. He believes my symptoms. He even (reluctantly) coordinates with my naturopath. Unfortunately his level of celiac expertise is, "If you are on the diet and you have no diarrhea then you must be fine." I told him that was not necessarily true and I would send him some articles. (I suspect he may even read them.) He still referred me for some tests though, including the ones I asked for.

  • 2 weeks later...
Batmans-Cinderella Newbie
#6 - They ask you how to spell celiac.

Nancy

Thank you I needed that tonight. It has been one of thouse days.

Katsby Apprentice

The day of my endoscopy my GI Dr. got on me about why I waited so long to have it done. It had been three months since my appt. I looked at him and said, "I took the first appt. your office gave me." He got red, apologized for "forgetting" about me and walked out. I never saw him again until my follow up.

DeLina Newbie
How about the ever famous answer of "It's a female thing". Followed in a close second to "It's all in yuor head. Here's a prescription for Prozac." Yeah I'm sure that Prozac is just gonna make me happy that I have lower right abdominal pain, weight loss, diarrhea, gas, bloating, more weight loss, and chronic anemia.

We should start a list of favorite quotes from relatives and doctors!

My favorite Dr Quote "You have bulimia" :D

debmidge Rising Star

My husband has celiac and he believes his sister does too. She will not get tested as she says she'd die before going on a gluten free diet. Anyway, his sister does not see the same doctors my husband does.....so I had an apportunity to talk to her Internist at a social gathering about my husband's celiac and how she could possibly have it too. This dummy doctor replied: "She doesn't have it because she doesn't have any gastro symptoms." DUH!

This was a stupid answer because this dummy internist doctor has given her prescriptions for ZANTAC over the past 15 years or so without doing any endoscopic testing whatsoever. She has had bowel and stomach aches and issues for the past 30 years (as long as I have known her) with belching and loss of weight. This internist (my apologies to the handicapped) must be deaf, dumb and blind as my SIL and MIL both go to him and my MIL saw him each month for the past few years and my SIL would book a double appointment so the doctor could see both of them during the same visit - so it wasn't like he never had the opportunity to do a physical exam or blood work on her. He would just give her the stomach pills she'd ask for with no questions asked by him.

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.


  • Celiac.com Sponsor (A19):



  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      131,549
    • Most Online (within 30 mins)
      7,748

    Blough
    Newest Member
    Blough
    Joined

  • Celiac.com Sponsor (A20):


  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      121.4k
    • Total Posts
      1m

  • Celiac.com Sponsor (A22):





  • Celiac.com Sponsor (A21):



  • Upcoming Events

  • Posts

    • Scott Adams
      Your post demonstrates the profound frustration and isolation that so many in the Celiac community feel, and I want to thank you for channeling that experience into advocacy. The medical gaslighting you endured for decades is an unacceptable and, sadly, a common story, and the fact that you now have to "school" your own GI specialist speaks volumes about the critical lack of consistent and updated education. Your idea to make Celiac Disease a reportable condition to public health authorities is a compelling and strategic one. This single action would force the system to formally acknowledge the prevalence and seriousness of the disease, creating a concrete dataset that could drive better research funding, shape medical school curricula, and validate the patient experience in a way that individual stories alone often cannot. It is an uphill battle, but contacting representatives, as you have done with Adam Gray, is exactly how change begins. By framing it as a public health necessity—a matter of patient safety and protection from misdiagnosis and neglect—you are building a powerful case. Your voice and your perseverance, forged through thirty years of struggle, are exactly what this community needs to ensure that no one else has to fight so hard just to be believed and properly cared for.
    • Scott Adams
      I had no idea there is a "Louisville" in Colorado!😉 I thought it was a typo because I always think of the Kentucky city--but good luck!
    • Scott Adams
      Navigating medication safety with Celiac disease can be incredibly stressful, especially when dealing with asthma and severe allergies on top of it. While I don't have personal experience with the HealthA2Z brand of cetirizine, your caution is absolutely warranted. The inactive ingredients in pills, known as excipients, are often where gluten can be hidden, and since the FDA does not require gluten-free labeling for prescription or over-the-counter drugs, the manufacturer's word is essential. The fact that you cannot get a clear answer from Allegiant Health is a significant red flag; a company that is confident its product is gluten-free will typically have a customer service protocol to answer that exact question. In situations like this, the safest course of action is to consider this product "guilty until proven innocent" and avoid it. A better alternative would be to ask your pharmacist or doctor to help you identify a major national brand of cetirizine (like Zyrtec) whose manufacturer has a verified, publicly stated gluten-free policy for that specific medication. It's not worth the risk to your health when reliable, verifiable options are almost certainly available to you. You can search this site for USA prescriptions medications, but will need to know the manufacturer/maker if there is more than one, especially if you use a generic version of the medication: To see the ingredients you will need to click on the correct version of the medication and maker in the results, then scroll down to "Ingredients and Appearance" and click it, and then look at "Inactive Ingredients," as any gluten ingredients would likely appear there, rather than in the Active Ingredients area. https://dailymed.nlm.nih.gov/dailymed/   
    • Scott Adams
      What you're describing is indeed familiar to many in the Celiac community, especially in the early stages of healing. When the intestinal villi are damaged from Celiac disease, they struggle to properly digest and absorb fats, a condition known as bile acid malabsorption. This can cause exactly the kind of cramping and spasms you're seeing, as undigested fats can irritate the sensitive gut lining. It is highly plausible that her reactions to dairy and eggs are linked to their higher fat content rather than the proteins, especially since she tolerates lean chicken breast. The great news is that for many, this does improve with time. As her gut continues to heal on a strict gluten-free diet, her ability to produce the necessary enzymes and bile to break down fats should gradually return, allowing her to slowly tolerate a wider variety of foods. It's a slow process of healing, but your careful approach of focusing on low-fat, nutrient-dense foods like seeds and avocado is providing her system the best possible environment to recover. Many people with celiac disease, especially those who are in the 0-2 year range of their recovery, have additional food intolerance issues which could be temporary. To figure this out you may need to keep a food diary and do an elimination diet over a few months. Some common food intolerance issues are dairy/casein, eggs, corn, oats, and soy. The good news is that after your gut heals (for most people who are 100% gluten-free this will take several months to two years) you may be able to slowly add some these items back into your diet after the damaged villi heal. This article may be helpful: Thank you for sharing your story—it's a valuable insight for other parents navigating similar challenges.
    • Beverage
      I had a very rough month after diagnosis. No exaggeration, lost so much inflammatory weight, I looked like a bag of bones, underneath i had been literally starving to death. I did start feeling noticeably better after a month of very strict control of my kitchen and home. What are you eating for breakfast and lunch? I ignored my doc and ate oats, yes they were gluten free, but some brands are at the higher end of gluten free. Lots of celics can eat Bob's Red Mill gluten-free oats, but not me. I can now eat them, but they have to be grown and processed according to the "purity protocol" methods. I mail order them, Montana Gluten-Free brand. A food and symptoms and activities log can be helpful in tracking down issues. You might be totally aware, but I have to mention about the risk of airborne gluten. As the doc that diagnosed me warned . . Remember eyes, ears, nose, and mouth all lead to your stomach and intestines.  Are you getting any cross contamination? Airborne gluten? Any pets eating gluten (they eat it, lick themselves, you pet them...)? Any house remodeling? We live in an older home, always fixing something. I've gotten glutened from the dust from cutting into plaster walls, possibly also plywood (glues). The suggestions by many here on vitamin supplements also really helped me. I had some lingering allergies and asthma, which are now 99% gone. I was taking Albuterol inhaler every hour just to breathe, but thiamine in form of benfotiamine kicked that down to 1-2 times a day within a few days of starting it. Also, since cutting out inflammatory seed oils (canola, sunflower, grapeseed, etc) and cooking with real olive oil, avocado oil, ghee, and coconut oil, I have noticed even greater improvement overall and haven't used the inhaler in months! It takes time to weed out everything in your life that contains gluten, and it takes awhile to heal and rebuild your health. At first it's mentally exhausting, overwhelming, even obsessive, but it gets better and second nature.
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

NOTICE: This site places This site places cookies on your device (Cookie settings). on your device. Continued use is acceptance of our Terms of Use, and Privacy Policy.