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Everyone,

Thank you for the suggestions. I think I may call the PT office I used to go to (after my hospitalization in June for my back) and see if they can help me. I am worried about chiropractors because I went to one for about 6 months for my back (before we knew about the spinal curve, etc.) and he just wanted to keep adjusting my instead of taking x-rays to see if my spine was all right. Then my MD told me a horror story about a patient dying after seeing a chiropractor. :(:o

Sherry,

Thank you for the idea!! I will try that! My mom is going to put a letter together today actually telling the doctor some basic info about ferritin and iron deficiency and how it affects a patient's well-being (or lack thereof in my case). Then she will say that we are unwilling to wait a week in between the IV's and the abx. Also, that the hematologist only released me into her care because he thought she was going to be taking blood every week...and she has "forgotten" to do that.

I hope a letter helps her move her butt.

It's great to hear you are doing so much better....there is hope! One day I will look back at all of this and just laugh because of their stupidity. <_<

Carla,

I know...it is funny (kind of) just because their lack of promptness. The GI seems just so unconcerned. She is literally the best IBD Dr. in all of Southern CA and she doesn't know what ferritin does. I wonder how many possibly malabsorbing patients she sends away because their hemoglobin is fine? UGH!

I am jealous of your lattes! ;)

Jin,

I'm kinda of the mindset that the less allergenic foods I have in my diet...the better off my immune system is. For me, I am dairy, gluten and soy free and still am not better. So you may find some relief with a completely dairy free and/or soy free diet. Also, people who have intolerances to dairy tend to have problems with soy...my "regualr" western Allergist told me that...that's when I decided to go soy free. And, honestly it's not that big of a deal. Just say good bye to convenience. Lol!

As far as chocolate...most dark chocolate (organic..not Hershey's, etc.) is dairy free. It may be harder to find ones that are free of soy lecithin...not everybody reacts. I can have a piece of gum like once a month and be fine, but anymore than that...I can't do. You can experiment with that one though. Trader Joe's and Whole Foods brand dark chocolate are both dairy free and soy free. That's only the dark though, I don't know about milk, etc.

Signing out of school was really hard...especially when the teachers were like "are you doing better?" I was like NO!! Why would I leave school if I was better? UGH! Oh well. And, I was the "perfect" student, so I have to let go of that...the entire 11th grade teaching team knew me...and loved me. sigh

I hope any appt's you have go well.

April,

I would love to try a sauna, but I don't know where I would do that. I no longer have a gym membership...hmm. We were going to try to sign up again...but it's expensive. Stuid LA gyms...overpriced.

Kassandra


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Kassandra,

I don't know if this would apply to you but YMCA has a special membership option for people who can't afford the "regular" dues. Due to illness or whatever the case may be. This is what i did. I applied and got approved for a familly discounted rate.

You fill out some paperwork and you would probably need to list some of your health issues and all the money that goes into that and they will let you know what your rate will be.

When I was a teenager I paid like $18 per month! I was sorry that I let that membership expire!

Now I pay $55.00 when the regular rate is $84.

Just a thought!

But if not, anyway you can get some sweat going is helpful. Its just harder to do in the bath.

MY ND did tell me about another way though. You get in a hot bath and soak for as long as you can. Get nice and toasty. Then when you get out, wrap up in a sheet, put socks on, and hop in the bed and cover up real good. Make sure you are staying toasty. Go to sleep and when you wake in the morning you might see some some dark colors on the sheet. She recommends this for detoxing from cigarettes. She says you can see the nicotine stains on the sheets that came through the pores of the skin. Even if you didn't smoke, I am sure it has the same affect with toxins.

I used to smoke so I am sure I am filled up with "junk"!

confusedks Enthusiast

April,

The problem with the local YMCA's is that they're pretty gross. Also, my mom makes good money, but with all the medical bills...her money goes too all the doctors...lol. ;) So, the bracket we fall into is not "needy" but they don't realize the cost of living. It may work though...if you tell them how much money goes to medical...ALL OF IT! LOL!

We do have a great gym about 2 major blocks away, but I guess I just need to sign up for it again. I used to go, but we let the membership go because I was too sick to ever go. Not that I feel any better, but everyone with Lyme seems to emphasize the importance of weight lifting.

I will also try the sheet thing and see if that helps. Thanks for the ideas. :)

Kassandra

confusedks Enthusiast

Does anyone have a good lotion that they use that isn't too strong scent wise? Also, gluten free? My hands and legs have been realllllly dry lately.

Thanks! Kassandra

Rachel--24 Collaborator
She says you can see the nicotine stains on the sheets that came through the pores of the skin. Even if you didn't smoke, I am sure it has the same affect with toxins.

I used to smoke so I am sure I am filled up with "junk"!

April,

totally wierd that you mention this because yesterday morning I woke up and I could *swear* I smelled like cigarettes. :huh:

I sometimes sweat at night but I had lots of layers on...plus the heater....so probably was more toasty then normal. Anyways I smelled it!! I smelled it on my hands and all around me...but I havent had a cigarette in like 2 years. :unsure:

I'm not sure if I detoxed some...or if I was just hallucinating the smell of cigarettes. :unsure:

Anyway...it was totally grossing me out. YUCKY cigarettes!!

I smoked around a pack a day for about 14 years. :ph34r:

ami27 Apprentice

I have to go in tomorrow for a D&C. What they did yesterday didn't work. I really, really wanted to avoid this. I did everything to avoid it, but looks like it's necessary. I'm a little scared. I hope they don't do any damage. There's always that possibility. I'm trying to be as positive as I can. I'm still amazed that this is all happening.

CarlaB Enthusiast
Not that I feel any better, but everyone with Lyme seems to emphasize the importance of weight lifting.

Or some kind of strength training .... you could even get a Yoga DVD .... I did that for a while .... I learned about some simple stretching moves that I still do. There is a lot of strength in Yoga and it's not as tiring, rather it's relaxing.

I still prefer weights though. ;) Dr. B says strength training in his guidelines, I believe .... but that can go beyond weights and the gym if it needs to.

Does anyone have a good lotion that they use that isn't too strong scent wise? Also, gluten free? My hands and legs have been realllllly dry lately.

Thanks! Kassandra

Can you use coconut oil?

I use Burt's Beeswax lotion when I'm really dry.

I have to go in tomorrow for a D&C. What they did yesterday didn't work. I really, really wanted to avoid this. I did everything to avoid it, but looks like it's necessary. I'm a little scared. I hope they don't do any damage. There's always that possibility. I'm trying to be as positive as I can. I'm still amazed that this is all happening.

I'm sorry .... this is a tough time for you.


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Ami, you've been through so much, you are in my thoughts and I hope tomorrow goes well. My mom had a D&C years ago, she came through it fine. I think they used to do these more in the past then they do now, but I'm not sure? Take some deep breaths, keep focusing on those positive thoughts and it will be over soon.

Carla, I do lots of yoga. Not only is it great exercise, but it works all the muscles, increases oxygen flow throughout the body, improves flexibility, AND releases TOXINS!! You can't lose with yoga :D If I didn't have all this edema and inflammation I would be all toned muscle, sigh....

Kass, I have the urge to call you little Kass :ph34r: (me and my nicknames :lol: ) I use Alba Botanica Very Emolient Body Lotion. I get it at the health food store in a HUGE bottle. It goes on sale frequently too so I try to stock up when it does. They have different formulas, unscented, extra moisturizing, etc.

confusedks Enthusiast

Julie,

Hehe. That's cute...I don't usually go by nick names, but I don't mind. I think I will try that lotion, I have their facial moisturizer...it's amazing!

Everyone,

I have some good news to report. I'm going to start the iron IV's on Monday. Well, it's not for sure, but we are waiting to hear back from the case worker to see if the insurance will for sure cover the PICC line (my mom doesn't think they'll cover it, so she wants to make sure). If they do, hopefully I will get it in on Friday, and then start IV's on Monday.

Once we find out if we can do the IV's (as far as getting appts with the Hematologists' office), we will make the appt. with the LLMD. PRAY ALL GOES THE WAY WE WANT!!! My mom is so close to calling the LLMD's office, if one thing goes wrong, I'm worried she won't call!!!

The GI Dr. wouldn't even talk to my mom, the nurse called and literally said "just have her have the IV's." LOL! I think they are fed up! LOL! My mom is pissed, I don't care at all!!!!

The abx aren't helping at all...still bloating, D, nausea....

Kassandra

aprilh Apprentice

Hello!

I need help from anyone who might have had experience with this.

My daughter seems to be going through "precocious puberty" or early puberty. She is only 7 and I have discovered some hair growing "down below". She has also had some smelly underarms. I am now putting 2 and 2 together and discovering she must have some kind of hormonal imbalance.

This is really freaking me out! I think its just too early. I am looking into taking her to a pediatric endocrinologist to have some testing done.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

Thanks!

April

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Carla,

Thanks for the reminder about patience. A strong point of mine it is... not! :rolleyes::)

Kassandra,

That is simply beyond ridiculous what your doctors are doing. :angry: Don't they see that a seriously ill patient of there is suffering because of their pettiness! Good for you and your Mom for writing to them!

My Mom got a book out of the library today about making your own scented soaps, bath salts, and bath oils! As a person whose never been able to tolerate many chemicals I got so excited! Guess what people are getting for Christmas from me? :P I'll post the name of the book when I hunt it up again.

Praying for you for your appointment!

Jin,

Sparkling pink e-coffee! :lol: :lol: :lol: That poem's so funny! :D

Ami,

:wub: I'm so sorry. I was born after my mother had three miscarriages, and needed a D&C after the third one. You should come out find from it.

Andrea,

Thanks for the info! I'm not sure how much the LLMD uses alternative medicines, but the nurse there did BioSet for years, so I'm pretty sure she knows a fair bit about herbal things.

Julie,

Thanks for posting that info on the lotion. My skin hates winter, and it's difficult finding something with coconut oil, which my skin hates even more!

mftnchn Explorer

Ami you are very much in my thoughts.

April, that is awful. There was some posting on this forum and maybe this thread about hormones in milk and meats being a big cause of this problem.

Here in China it is a problem too. Our landlord's twelve year old son just had to have surgery in the private area, and it was related to this same issue of additives in food. He is so angry about it, he says he can't wait until his son is old enough that he can send him out of China!!

confusedks Enthusiast

April,

I can ask my friend. She is now almost 18 and when she was really young (although I don't think she was quite that young) she starting to develop breasts, etc. and they sent her to a specialist to fix the problem. I will ask her more about it tomorrow because I don't remember exactly what she had done. I won't be able to talk to her until about 3.30 my time (I'm in CA). I will post what she tells me.

Sherry,

I know this is kinda off topic, but do you like living in China? I learned Mandarin for a while and I loved it!!!! :D I was going to go to China for 6 weeks over summer break to do a volunteer/study abroad thing with NYU, but my health won't allow.

Birdy,

I used to be really into making natural soaps. I actually was really good at them for a while. That's actually a good idea for the holidays. I don't know if I ever saw natural lotion "recipes" though. Let me know what you find out.

Kassandra

Ridgewalker Contributor

Kassandra and Birdy,

There should be recipes out there, maybe on the net...

I have a body moisturizer that I love, that is homemade. I bought it at the local farmer's market from a woman who makes organic moisturizers, bath powders, and candles. It's wonderful!!! It has oil, sea salt, organic fragrance oils, and I don't remember what all. But it's the best thing I've ever used.

I don't remember what type of oil is in it, but I have her email address around here somewhere. I will dig it up tomorrow!

Edit-- Also, Susie/DingoGirl found a moisturizer that she LOVES from bodymoose.com They aren't scent-free, but some are gluten-free. And she said that the customer service is really above and beyond- so if you were interested in a product you could email or call and find out exactly what's in it. Some of it has oatmeal, but I don't think it all does???

Ridgewalker Contributor

Rachel,

How did you quit smoking? Did you use any particular method? I've been a smoker for about 12 years, and I really want to quit come the new year. I've tried many times before- it's hard!!! The closest I came was during my pregnancies, when I was down to 1 or 2 cigarettes a day. But the past month or two, I've been having mild asthma attacks, which I haven't had since I was a kid... Having them almost every day now. :(

AndreaB Contributor
I have to go in tomorrow for a D&C. What they did yesterday didn't work. I really, really wanted to avoid this. I did everything to avoid it, but looks like it's necessary. I'm a little scared. I hope they don't do any damage. There's always that possibility. I'm trying to be as positive as I can. I'm still amazed that this is all happening.

I'm sorry Ami. :( I'll be thinking of you. Everything will be fine.

I have some good news to report. I'm going to start the iron IV's on Monday. Well, it's not for sure, but we are waiting to hear back from the case worker to see if the insurance will for sure cover the PICC line (my mom doesn't think they'll cover it, so she wants to make sure). If they do, hopefully I will get it in on Friday, and then start IV's on Monday.

Once we find out if we can do the IV's (as far as getting appts with the Hematologists' office), we will make the appt. with the LLMD. PRAY ALL GOES THE WAY WE WANT!!! My mom is so close to calling the LLMD's office, if one thing goes wrong, I'm worried she won't call!!!

That is great news! Hope everything goes well and your mom doesn't change her mind.

My daughter seems to be going through "precocious puberty" or early puberty. She is only 7 and I have discovered some hair growing "down below". She has also had some smelly underarms. I am now putting 2 and 2 together and discovering she must have some kind of hormonal imbalance.

This is really freaking me out! I think its just too early. I am looking into taking her to a pediatric endocrinologist to have some testing done.

9 is about the normal age for girls to start through puberty now. :(

I believe African Americans start around 8.

Many things contribute to early puberty. I knew about hormones from meat/eggs and dairy, but have learned that soy and plastics can cause alot of problems too. I would be surprised if most children don't have some sort of problem with plastics.......it's everywhere! Two of my children already tested as having plastics that are causing problems (the ASYRA test). We had Laser Energetic Detox for my daughter before we ran out of money but I think it was too little too late. She was starting to have some breast tenderness but hasn't talked about it for the last couple weeks or so.

My Mom got a book out of the library today about making your own scented soaps, bath salts, and bath oils! As a person whose never been able to tolerate many chemicals I got so excited! Guess what people are getting for Christmas from me? :P I'll post the name of the book when I hunt it up again.

Sounds interesting.

Jin,

How'd the appointment go today? Wasn't that today?

confusedks Enthusiast

Well, I ended up taking a nap at about 8.00 and I do NOT recommend that to anyone...lol! I was so tired I couldn't walk upstairs, so I slept on the couch and now...ugh. I have read every thread on LN and I am still wide awake..lol.

Let's hope this seemingly new problem of insomnia will go away eventually. It's killing me. Oh, did I mention I took these stress things that always used to make me sleep for almost 16 hours, and I'm still wide awake. LOL!!!

Also, I don't know if I mentioned this, but we should get my Lyme tests back tomorrow. I am not too excited because they will probably be negative, but I hope they are positive!!!

Sarah,

Thanks for the link. I will look into that.

Ami,

I hope all goes well. I was going to have a D&C a year or two ago, and don't they put you asleep...so you wouldn't be in pain during the procedure. I will be thinking of you!

Kassandra

AndreaB Contributor
Also, I don't know if I mentioned this, but we should get my Lyme tests back tomorrow. I am not too excited because they will probably be negative, but I hope they are positive!!!

No you didn't mention it.

I hope they are positive too, but I'm not holding my breath. Will you still do Igenex if it is negative?

Hope you are able to get some sleep. :(

Ridgewalker Contributor
Well, I ended up taking a nap at about 8.00 and I do NOT recommend that to anyone...lol! I was so tired I couldn't walk upstairs, so I slept on the couch and now...ugh.

Kassandra

GAH! I did the same thing! It's in the wee hours of the morning here, I actually slept a full 8 hours on the couch! Now I'm doing laundry and making cupcakes at 3:30am. :lol:

Rachel--24 Collaborator

So I guess I'm not alone in staying up late tonight! I didnt take a nap...I'm just not sleepy yet. :huh:

Been sitting here reading and listening to Xmas songs. I think its the music getting me all happy and in the holiday spirit. :)

Now its almost 2 am...and I'm eating beef and peas. :rolleyes:

Sarah...I'd rather be eating cupcakes! :D

I finally got my phone today...I dont have to stare out the window waiting for the Fed Ex guy anymore. :lol:

So I've been busy texting...making up for 3 days without my phone. :P

Ami...I'm really sorry things have been so difficult for you. You've been in my thoughts today.

9 is about the normal age for girls to start through puberty now.

Andrea...I know we've had this discussion before...but I still cant believe it!! :(

April...I was really sad to read that. It doesnt seem right that kids are going through this so early...7 is very young!! I dont have any answers but hopefully the Dr. can help with this.

Kassandra, I'll keep my fingers crossed that you get positive results back tomorrow!

Julie,

My vacation has been relaxing...but very unproductive. I've been lazy. :P

I also kept telling myself that I couldnt do anything cuz I had to wait for my phone to arrive. :lol:

mftnchn Explorer
Sherry,

I know this is kinda off topic, but do you like living in China? I learned Mandarin for a while and I loved it!!!! :D I was going to go to China for 6 weeks over summer break to do a volunteer/study abroad thing with NYU, but my health won't allow.

Kassandra

Yes, actually I do. I am fluent in Mandarin, spoken and written. I type Chinese, but because I don't practice everyday, I blank out when I go to write characters unless I look it up to remind me. Lyme brain doesn't help!

Hey all you insomniacs...too bad I had a full busy day or I could have chatted with you all!

miamia Rookie
Ami, you've been through so much, you are in my thoughts and I hope tomorrow goes well. My mom had a D&C years ago, she came through it fine. I think they used to do these more in the past then they do now, but I'm not sure? Take some deep breaths, keep focusing on those positive thoughts and it will be over soon.

Carla, I do lots of yoga. Not only is it great exercise, but it works all the muscles, increases oxygen flow throughout the body, improves flexibility, AND releases TOXINS!! You can't lose with yoga :D If I didn't have all this edema and inflammation I would be all toned muscle, sigh....

Kass, I have the urge to call you little Kass :ph34r: (me and my nicknames :lol: ) I use Alba Botanica Very Emolient Body Lotion. I get it at the health food store in a HUGE bottle. It goes on sale frequently too so I try to stock up when it does. They have different formulas, unscented, extra moisturizing, etc.

Julie-

This is the lotion I use too!!!!!!!!!! I love it !!! I use the unscented one . I used to use their bubble bath too, also amazing but now i pretty much avoid anything with fragrance. Between this lotion and kiss my face olive oil soap (also really good) that is my beauty regimen.

aprilh Apprentice
9 is about the normal age for girls to start through puberty now. :(

I believe African Americans start around 8.

Many things contribute to early puberty. I knew about hormones from meat/eggs and dairy, but have learned that soy and plastics can cause alot of problems too. I would be surprised if most children don't have some sort of problem with plastics.......it's everywhere! Two of my children already tested as having plastics that are causing problems (the ASYRA test). We had Laser Energetic Detox for my daughter before we ran out of money but I think it was too little too late. She was starting to have some breast tenderness but hasn't talked about it for the last couple weeks or so.

I knew about the plastics and beauty products and food being either laced with hormones or how they block hormone receptors. Also toilet paper containing dioxins

What is ASYRA testing? I have been searching and searching and can't find anyone who does LED treatments here in Charlotte, NC. How old is your daughter?

I am going to have some tests run. I just don't like this at all!!!!!

I also read that metals and environmentals can cause this and she has metals.

We started her on a gentle slow detox this summer, but have stopped for now. Won't start again until the summer.

This is so upsetting! She is too young!!!

mftnchn Explorer

I don't think anyone else here has dupuytrens, I posted once on the board and only had a couple of responses about relatives or whatever.

But I found one site that said no free fats, all vegetarian, then this: soak hands in hot water for 20 min 4 times a day and then work on stretching them. Hmm. If I didn't do anything else maybe. But with my work schedule plus all the other health routines, this is not very practical. Even once a day would be a challenge.

Then keep a low blood sugar. A three to five day fast could help.

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I think the sugar thing may be valid for me to some degree. But the rest, I just don't know. The no meat seems the opposite of what I need. And with no soy, protein would be a challenge with no meat.

At this point I am just hoping it will not get so bad I have to have surgery. Looks like I won't be able to wear my wedding ring now. This latest irritation marked the popping up of a new large lump at the lower joint of my ring finger, and my ring was too tight to be comfortable. I had a really hard time getting it off.

Also, Donna, your exclamations about the website having those yucky pictures made me curious. So I had to go take a look. I agree! It is hard to believe people's intestines would retain all that! Goodness, no wonder people have symptoms! I think about the long term constipation that I have dealt with, read on that website and really have to wonder.

miamia Rookie
So I guess I'm not alone in staying up late tonight! I didnt take a nap...I'm just not sleepy yet. :huh:

Been sitting here reading and listening to Xmas songs. I think its the music getting me all happy and in the holiday spirit. :)

Now its almost 2 am...and I'm eating beef and peas. :rolleyes:

Sarah...I'd rather be eating cupcakes! :D

I finally got my phone today...I dont have to stare out the window waiting for the Fed Ex guy anymore. :lol:

So I've been busy texting...making up for 3 days without my phone. :P

Ami...I'm really sorry things have been so difficult for you. You've been in my thoughts today.

Andrea...I know we've had this discussion before...but I still cant believe it!! :(

April...I was really sad to read that. It doesnt seem right that kids are going through this so early...7 is very young!! I dont have any answers but hopefully the Dr. can help with this.

Kassandra, I'll keep my fingers crossed that you get positive results back tomorrow!

Julie,

My vacation has been relaxing...but very unproductive. I've been lazy. :P

I also kept telling myself that I couldnt do anything cuz I had to wait for my phone to arrive. :lol:

Rachel-

glad you got your phone back-

quick question - now that i have been getting chelation for a hwile i was thinking of getting retested for lyme adn see what happens. Any opininions?

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      Hi, I was recently diagnosed with Celiac and dermatitis herpetiformis after years of suffering without answers. I lost my mind. I lost my job. I lost so much time. I lost Me. Conventional doctors are opulent come near me and the one who did sat across the room, misdiagnosed me, pumped me full of steroids which collapsed my entire hip for 6 months. So without answers I began my holistic journey. Fast forward a couple of years and still struggling with a mysterious whole body itchy, crawling “skin hell”, perfect teeth now deteriorating, thick hair now thinning rapidly and no more than a day or 2 at most relief….An acquaintance opened up a functional medicine practice. Cash only, I found a way. Within a month tests clearly showing my off the charts gluten allergy/sensitivity as well as the depletion of vital nutrients due to leaky gut and intestinal damage. dermatitis herpetiformis was more than likely what I was experiencing with my skin. I was happy. I thought this is easy, eat healthy Whole Foods, follow the diet restrictions and I finally get to heal and feel confident and like myself again very soon! 😔 Supplements are very pricey but I got them and began my healing. Which leads to the other major issue: not working, stay at home Mom of young kids, entirely financially dependent on my man of 7 plus years. He’s never been supportive of anything I’ve ever done or been thru. He controls everything. I’m not given much money ever at a time and when he does leave money it’s only enough to possibly get gas. His excuse is that I’ll spend it on other things. So my “allowance” is inconsistent and has conditions. He withholds money from me as punishment for anything he wants. Since being diagnosed, he’s gained a new control tactic to use as punishment. He now is in control of when I get to eat. He asked for proof of my diagnosis and diet bc he said I made it up just to be able to eat expensive organic foods. Then after I sent him my file from my doctor he then said she wasn’t a real doctor. 😡. I go days upon days starving, sometimes breaking down and eating things I shouldn’t bc I’m so sick then I pay horribly while he gets annoyed and angry bc I’m not keeping up with all the duties I’m supposed to be doing. His abuse turns full on when I’m down and it’s in these desperate times when I need his support and care the most that I’m punished with silence, being starved, ignored, belittled. He will create more of a mess just bc I’m unable to get up and clean so that when I am better, I’m so overwhelmed with chores to catch up that the stress causes me to go right back into a flare from hell and the cycle repeats. I’m punished for being sick. I’m belittled for starving and asking for healthy clean water. I’m purposely left out of his life. He won’t even tell me he’s going to the grocery or to get dinner bc he doesn’t want me to ask him for anything. I have no one. I have nothing. Im not better. My supplements ran out and I desperately need Vitamin D3 and a methylated B complex at the very minimal just to function….he stares at me blankly…no, a slight smirk, no words. He’s happiest when im miserable and I am miserable.  this is so long and im condensing as much as I can but this situation is so complicated and disgusting. And it’s currently my life. The “IT” girl, the healthy, beautiful, perfect skin, perfect teeth, thick and curly locks for days, creative and talented IT girl….now I won’t even leave this house bc Im ashamed of what this has dont to my body, my skin. Im disgusted. The stress is keeping me from healing and I think he knows that and that’s why he continues to keep me in that state. He doesn’t want me confident or successful. He doesn’t want me healed and healthy bc then how would he put the blame of all his problems on me? This journey has been hell and I’ve been in Hell before. I’ve been killed by an ex, I’ve been raped, robbed, held hostage, abused beyond nightmares but the cruelty I’ve experienced from him bc of this disease is the coldest I’ve ever experienced. I’ve wanted to give up. Starving and in tears, desperate…I found a local food pantry in our small town so I reached out just saying I had Celiac and was on hard times. This woman is blessing me daily with prepared gluten free meals, donations, educational info, people who know this disease and how they manage life and the blessings just keep coming. But it’s overwhelming and I feel like I don’t deserve it at all. He just glared and I know he’s going to sabotage it somehow. I don’t even know what to do anymore. I’m so broken and just want peace and healing. 
    • cristiana
      @Colleen H   I am just curious,  when you were tested for coeliac disease, did the doctors find out if you had any deficiencies? Sometimes muscle pain can be caused by certain deficiencies, for example, magnesium, vitamin D, calcium, and potassium.   Might be worth looking into having some more tests.  Pins and needles can be neuropathy, again caused by deficiencies, such as iron and B12,  which can be reversed if these deficiencies are addressed. In the UK where I live we are usually only tested for iron, B12 and vitamin D deficiencies at diagnosis.   I was very iron anemic and supplementation made a big difference.  B12 was low normal, but in other countries the UK's low normal would be considered a deficiency.  My vitamin D was low normal, and I've been supplementing ever since (when I remember to take it!) My pins and needles definitely started to improve when my known deficiencies were addressed.  My nutritionist also gave me a broad spectrum supplement which really helped, because I suspect I wasn't just deficient in what I mention above but in many other vitamins and minerals.  But a word of warning, don't take iron unless blood tests reveal you actually need it, and if you are taking it your levels must be regularly monitored because too much can make you ill.  (And if you are currently taking iron, that might actually be making your stomach sore - it did mine, so my GP changed my iron supplementation to a gentler form, ferrous gluconate). Lastly, have you been trying to take anything to lessen the pain in your gut?  I get a sore stomach periodically, usually when I've had too much rich food, or when I have had to take an aspirin or certain antibiotics, or after glutening.  When this happens, I take for just a few days a small daily dose of OTC omeprazole.  I also follow a reflux or gastritis diet. There are lots online but the common denominators to these diets is you need to cut out caffeine, alcohol, rich, spicy, acidic food etc and eat small regularly spaced meals.   When I get a sore stomach, I also find it helpful to drink lots of water.  I also find hot water with a few slices of ginger very soothing to sip, or camomile tea.  A wedge pillow at night is good for reflux. Also,  best not to eat a meal 2-3 hours before going to bed. If the stomach pain is getting worse, though, it would be wise to see the doctor again. I hope some of this helps. Cristiana    
    • Me,Sue
      I was diagnosed with coeliac disease a couple of years ago [ish]. I love my food and a variety of food, so it's been hard, as it is with everyone. I try and ensure everything I eat doesn't contain gluten, but occasionally I think something must have got through that has gluten in. Mainly I know because I have to dash to the loo, but recently I have noticed that I feel nauseous after possibly being glutened. I think the thing that I have got better at is knowing what to do when I feel wiped out after a gluten 'episode'. I drink loads of water, and have just started drinking peppermint tea. I also have rehydration powders to drink. I don't feel like eating much, but eventually feel like I need to eat. Gluten free flapjacks, or gluten free cereal, or a small gluten free kids meal are my go to. I am retired, so luckily I can rest, sometimes even going to bed when nothing else works. So I feel that I am getting better at knowing how to try and get back on track. I am also trying to stick to a simpler menu and eat mostly at home so that I can be more confident about what I am eating. THANKS TO THOSE WHO REPLIED ABOUT THE NAUSEA .
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