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debmidge Rising Star

sorry to hear about him Patti, wishing for the best possible outcome for him....

D.


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Ursa Major Collaborator

Prayers going up. I hope he'll be okay.

jerseyangel Proficient

Thank you all so very much! I deeply appreciate all of your thoughts, prayers and good wishes on behalf of my family.

Lynne, I agree that there is power in numbers--and this is one determined group we have here ;)

Nini, Yes, they are definately planning to incorporate alternative/natural therapies along with whatever the doctors recommend. My sister has been consulting with her Kinesiologist.

Liz, You're so right about PE teachers--you are all very special :D

Marcia, Bev and Jestgar, thanks for your comforting words. I'm glad to hear that the people in your lives were able to successfully overcome this.

Ursula, I will never forget your generosity the other day.

Again, thanks to each and every one of you :)

Judyin Philly Enthusiast

Dear Patti.

Ah your so welcome. You never ask for anything there. You only give.

It's an honor to help you and your family.

I KNOW PERSONALLY, THAT THE PRAYERS FROM OUR FOLKS HERE ARE POWERFUL.

WE'LL KEEP THEM COMING.

HOPE YOU'LL SHARE THEIR PROGRESS ON THIS JOURNEY WHEN AND IF YOU FEEL LIKE IT.

HUGS, LOVE AND PRAYERS

JUDY

DingoGirl Enthusiast

Patti.....love and prayers directed toward all of you. And hugs. :)

happygirl Collaborator

Patti, just finally got on and saw the thread. I am so sorry to hear about your b-i-l. I will keep him in my prayers. Please, keep us updated. How is your sister doing with all of this?

They are lucky to have you in their corner for support.

Love,

Laura

Guest Kathy Ann

JerseyAngel,

Prayers going up!


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Turtle Enthusiast

Consider it DONE!!

Love n' Hugs!

Cheri A Contributor

((Patti and family)) ~ prayers being sent up for your BIL and sister and the whole family.

jerseyangel Proficient

Thank you so much ladies :)

irish Contributor

Patty, I am very sorry to hear about your brother-in-law. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

jaten Enthusiast

I have just seen this thread. Of course I will keep positive thoughts and have already stopped and said a prayer. Elementary P. E. teachers are special people, and so are brothers-in-law! Prayers for him, your sister, and all the family. God bless!

jerseyangel Proficient

Thank you, Jaten--I appreciate it :)

Laura, My sister is not taking this well at all. He is actually holding it together better.

What we're hoping for now is that the scans come out clear in terms of the cancer already spreading. If all clear, they will do surgery that will, hopefully, take care of it. Don't know yet about any additional treatment.

jesscarmel Enthusiast

im thinking of you and your family

Jess

mamaw Community Regular

Hi Patti

I don't know how I missed this until now... But I've raised my hand to the Lord,bowed my head on bended knee & said a prayer for all the family for healing, support , compassion,understanding and most of all a speedy recovery..

May God's blessings be bestowed upon you & yours.....It is at these times where we are tested....

mamaw

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Just checked in and wanted you to know I was thinking of you, your BIL and family.

When you said that your sister wasn't taking it well and that your BIL was handling it better, I think that happens a lot because the family and friends think that there is nothing they can do to solve the problem. They can't cure the one they love. You have no control over the situation and that is really hard. :(

Hugs hugs hugs B

jerseyangel Proficient

Thank you mamaw, Jess and Bev--your words are appreciated more than you know :)

lindalee Enthusiast

Patti,

I pray all will go well for your bil and all the family. :wub:

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