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spunky

By spunky
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spunky Contributor
spunky
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Hello!

I just wanted to tell you all that I discovered this message board a while back and have found it immensely helpful to me. I am a mid-fifties female. Beginning around 15 years ago, I felt my health was taking a downward spiral, read about gluten and thought maybe it fit my situation. I went off of gluten for a while, got no better, and decided maybe that wasn't the problem afterall, but continued on with worsening problems, especially rapidly emerging intestinal issues, for the next 5 years. I didn't know if it was aging or what to think, but I wasn't very well and I became inclined to try to spend most of my time at home, more and more.

Since I absolutely hate doctors, it was out of the question for me to consult one. I've never had any luck with doctors in the past, and as a matter of fact, they have mostly done me more harm than good. So I was on my own.

After running across this message board about a year ago, I began to see that my previous effort to attempt a gluten free trial was not done correctly at all, and also I was looking for improvement way too soon than it was likely to happen.

I tried it again 7 months ago. Those past 7 months were like a bumpy roller coaster ride, especially the first 3 of those months, but because I kept coming here often and consulting information and even reassurrance I would derive from your experiences that I saw here at this board, I knew much better what to expect this time, how to avoid mistakes, and most importantly, to KEEP going for a while. Now in my 8th month gluten free, I can finally see the light! I feel better than I can ever remember feeling before. It's amazing to see the difference. I thought I was better just a month ago, but now I'm seeing that apparently it's been a long time since I knew what it was like to feel really good!

I am so grateful to all of you here whose shared experiences walked me through many tearful times, times when I thought I wasn't getting better, times when I had no where else to turn to. I cannot thank you enough for sharing your experiences. I would never have continued trying this for such a long time before; I expected results in just a couple of weeks and didn't realize all of the hidden traps of cross-contamination and questionable ingredients.

I think you all should know that there are probably others besides myself who lurk here once in a while, and you probably don't know how many people you have helped by sharing your experiences in a public forum like this. You've helped me more than any doctors ever did in my past, and I'm so happy to be gluten free and feeling perfectly normal and well now, besides carrying a wealth of knowledge to help me to know which ingredients or situtaions I need to avoid. I can't thank you enough. You are all doing a very nice thing by being here!

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CarlaB
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Spunky, welcome to the board! I, too, have found a wealth of information here and have managed to make some good friends along the way. I'm glad it's working for you and I hope you stick around for a while and share your experiences and just have some fun with us!!

jerseyangel Proficient
jerseyangel
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Hi Spunky--what a wonderful story! I'm very glad you found us, and that we could be of so much help to you :)

Your story also proves what we say often to people confused about whether to persue a formal diagnosis, for whatever reason. You don't need a doctor's permission or a prescription to go on the gluten-free diet--if you feel better this way, then you have the answer for you.

I wish you continued good health--and hope you'll stick around and post more often :)

Ursa Major Collaborator
Ursa Major
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Hi Spunky, and welcome to this board! I am glad you've finally come 'out of hiding', and I'm very glad that you have been helped so much by reading here.

It's great to see that at least one person our age has gotten completely better on the gluten-free diet. Because this far I haven't seen anybody else who by their fifties had not developed any other issues because of being misdiagnosed for such a long time. Myself included, of course.

spunky Contributor
spunky
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Hi Spunky, and welcome to this board! I am glad you've finally come 'out of hiding', and I'm very glad that you have been helped so much by reading here.

It's great to see that at least one person our age has gotten completely better on the gluten-free diet. Because this far I haven't seen anybody else who by their fifties had not developed any other issues because of being misdiagnosed for such a long time. Myself included, of course.

Guhlia Rising Star
Guhlia
Posted

Welcome, Spunky!!! So glad you're beginning to feel better.

Canadian Karen Community Regular
Canadian Karen
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Hi Spunky!

Thank you for the reminder that not only the ones who we see and post with are benefitting from our knowledge, but the myriad of silent lurkers who are reading and listening and learning behind the scenes. I am so glad things that you have learned on here have made such a difference to your life!

Hope to see you around more!

Hugs.

Karen

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mouse Enthusiast
mouse
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Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. I am so glad that you have gotten so much better.

ravenwoodglass Mentor
ravenwoodglass
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Welcome to the boards and to good health. I do so hope you will stick around and want you to know how valuable your story is to the folks who are in the early stages of living gluten free and getting frustrated with the ups and downs and all the 'little' things that are so important like CC. I am going on 4 years gluten-free and am still amazed how much I continue to improve. It can be a long slow process for so many of us and your telling your story is so helpful. Thanks for sharing and again welcome.

spunky Contributor
spunky
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Hi Spunky, and welcome to this board! I am glad you've finally come 'out of hiding', and I'm very glad that you have been helped so much by reading here.

It's great to see that at least one person our age has gotten completely better on the gluten-free diet. Because this far I haven't seen anybody else who by their fifties had not developed any other issues because of being misdiagnosed for such a long time. Myself included, of course.

AndreaB Contributor
AndreaB
Posted

Welcome Spunky! :D

Thank you for sharing your story. Hope to see you around some other threads as you get comfortable posting and sharing your knowledge. :)

spunky Contributor
spunky
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You're all very kind! I wanted to say that Urusula, your posts have been especially informative. I'm sorry things are going so slowly for you and you've had so many difficulties, and hope things just get better and better for you.

One of the most helpful insights for me was to see that gluten reactions might not be too immediate. I discovered in my own case, that accidental glutenings didn't cause problems until around 3 or 4 days later, and then set me into a bad way for maybe a couple of weeks, or close to it. Back 5 years ago when I tried gluten free, I had no idea that symptoms could be so delayed, and I really never could figure out what was causing continued symptoms, besides the fact that, as I said before, I can look back now and see where I was never entirely away from gluten enough to see consistent results.

OVer the past month, I've been feeling really good. My mood has been elevated so much too. My only error was with beer. Since I'm not a beer drinker normally, I just didn't think (DUH!). My neighbor came over to visit one evening and brought some expensive beer with her. I told her thank you but I just don't like beer, but she insisted I just taste it, because the stuff was so expensive I might just find that I did like it. Well, to make her happy, without thinking, I did taste it. I didn't like it and had only a gulp. But later that evening it just hit me what I'd done. I was afraid I would get sick in 3 or 4 days, and stay that way for the predictable 8-12 days or more. But it hit within about 24 hours, very mild this time, and lasting only a couple of days. BEsides that one time, I have felt like a totally new person!

Again, I'm thankful to all (out of the closet here now!), and have gotten so much information that's helped me to stick with it long enough and know how to be more careful. Ursula, I hope things improve all around for you, and again want to thank you personally for the helpful insights I've gotten from all the posts you've written here.

Jestgar Rising Star
Jestgar
Posted

Hi Spunky,

I lurked for a while too. I finally felt kind of guilty and started posting.... :)

AndreaB Contributor
AndreaB
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Hi Spunky,

I lurked for a while too. I finally felt kind of guilty and started posting.... :)

Jestgar,

I grew up in South Puget Sound. I'm now down by Vancouver. Are you aroung the Seattle area?

elye Community Regular
elye
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Spunky, I want to thank you for such a positive story! I recently read a post from a member who is leaving the board due to frustration with the way some posts have been going, and I was feeling a bit sad. Good timing, my reading your post of appreciation! I've been uplifted now. We'll hear from you on further threads... :)

Rachel--24 Collaborator
Rachel--24
Posted

Spunky,

I'm so happy for you! I hope you continue to feel better and better in the weeks to come. Thanks for sharing your story. :)

rinne Apprentice
rinne
Posted

Thanks for sharing your story Spunky, great to know that persistence pays off. :)

Rikki Tikki Explorer
Rikki Tikki
Posted

Welcome Spunky! :D:D:D

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