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K8ling Enthusiast

We lost the little bun in the oven :( We'll start trying again when the man gets home from his deployment .

I'm ok, just eating frosting out of the container LOL. It's hard but I am thankful for the gluten free junk food you guys have showed me XD.


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kitgordon Explorer

Oh, I am so very sorry. Such a loss is always painful. I agree - there's nothing like sweets when you are hurting.

jerseyangel Proficient

I'm so sorry for your loss :( Take good care.

kareng Grand Master

Aw, K8! I know from experience its hard, even early on. But I also know that a pregnancy can happen again, when the time is right.

Continue with the junk food!

TrillumHunter Enthusiast

Do whatever you need to take care of yourself.

Prayers for your tonight. I'm sorry for your loss.

ravenwoodglass Mentor

I'm sorry this happened to you. (((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))

tarnalberry Community Regular

((HUGS)) I'm sorry!


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Cheryl-C Enthusiast

Very sorry to hear about this :( Take care of yourself! Frosting is good for the soul :)

i-geek Rookie

Oh no! I'm so sorry for your loss. :( Sadly, I too know from experience how hard this is. Take care of yourself however you need too. Frosting is a good start.

Monklady123 Collaborator

I'm very sorry to hear this. :( When you start to get sick of the frosting switch to Snickers. :)

SGWhiskers Collaborator

I'm so sorry. Lots of love going your way.

kayo Explorer

So sorry {{hugs}}

Frances03 Enthusiast

Oh nooooooooooo!! I'm SO sorry!! I've been thru this too many times and it sucks bad. I am so so so sorry, I'll be praying for you.

K8ling Enthusiast

Thanks for all the support! We were pretty disappointed. It was worse on me because I saw it yesterday in an ultrasound and then today it was just gone. I have some GREAT pain pills and my husband took it pretty well (although he wants to try again when he gets home and so do I and we know it's just our parent sides being impractical). Anyway, I was asking the doctor if maybe my Celiac had something ot do with it and he said that being diagnosed could have messed with my hormones a bit. My body had to make some adjustments. So I am staying off birth control to let my body adjust. I told my husband it's HIS turn to worry about birth control LOL.

Thank you all so much. I am sure once my percocet wears off and my Pamelas Ginger Cookies are gone I'm going to be pretty sad. TOmorrow I booked a massage and I'm going to spend the day pampering myself while my son is at school. It's messed up that I still will have symptoms of pregnancy for up to a week. ALso, I have a baby bump (it's tiny but there) and I get sad whenever I see it.

Hmm...I think it's time to move onto snickers LOL.

GlutenFreeManna Rising Star

I'm so sorry! :( I've been there (3 times) and there's nothing that can make it better. You're doing the best thing you can by resting and pampering yourself.

When you get to feeling a little bit better you might consider checking out the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" for a source of birth control.

celiac-mommy Collaborator

I'm so sorry! I've been there as well. One loss, but 2 gains ;) My prayers are with you and your husband. Have fun trying for the 'gain' :)

Charlie's Girl Apprentice

Sending love and long distance hugs.

lynnelise Apprentice

I hate that this has happened to you! I'm so sorry! I think pampering yourself is a really good idea, enjoy your massage.

Salax Contributor

I am so sorry for your loss. :( *hugs*

Aphreal Contributor

Oh dear, I am SO sorry. Bless your heart.

Skylark Collaborator

So sorry to read this. ((( hug )))

Haagen Dazs next, I imagine? ;)

mommida Enthusiast

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

notme Experienced

o i'm so sorry :(((

i had a miscarriage between my son and my youngest daughter. thinking that God maybe knows best sometimes (as in baby wasn't going to develop right, etc.) helped me get through. it's tough. but the next baby was normal and healthy, so hang in there. our thoughts and prayers are with you xxoo

K8ling Enthusiast

o i'm so sorry :(((

i had a miscarriage between my son and my youngest daughter. thinking that God maybe knows best sometimes (as in baby wasn't going to develop right, etc.) helped me get through. it's tough. but the next baby was normal and healthy, so hang in there. our thoughts and prayers are with you xxoo

You are absolutely right. I would have been pregnant and/or delivering the baby alone, and since I got so sick with my son, my doctor told me being pregnant could kill me. My husband would have missed too much...and with the possibility of death thrown in there it's hard to not be slightly relieved. I am sad, he is sad, and we are coping, but we are also thankful that things happen for a reason.

I think the hardest part was telling people we lost it. I had to tell everyone that I was pregnant because I was SO sick. And I still have symptoms (although they are less now) so it's hard to explain that I might still be nauseous for a few days.

diane64 Apprentice

I am so sorry. I have been there too. Take care of yourself and take the time to heal!

Thanks for all the support! We were pretty disappointed. It was worse on me because I saw it yesterday in an ultrasound and then today it was just gone. I have some GREAT pain pills and my husband took it pretty well (although he wants to try again when he gets home and so do I and we know it's just our parent sides being impractical). Anyway, I was asking the doctor if maybe my Celiac had something ot do with it and he said that being diagnosed could have messed with my hormones a bit. My body had to make some adjustments. So I am staying off birth control to let my body adjust. I told my husband it's HIS turn to worry about birth control LOL.

Thank you all so much. I am sure once my percocet wears off and my Pamelas Ginger Cookies are gone I'm going to be pretty sad. TOmorrow I booked a massage and I'm going to spend the day pampering myself while my son is at school. It's messed up that I still will have symptoms of pregnancy for up to a week. ALso, I have a baby bump (it's tiny but there) and I get sad whenever I see it.

Hmm...I think it's time to move onto snickers LOL.

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